Alabama

Melvin Klotzman, Psi (University of Alabama) 1951

There are countless ways that people choose to live their lives; quiet lives, active lives, purpose-driven lives and the list goes on. A select few are simply larger than life and cannot be categorized. Melvin Klotzman never met a stranger and an encounter with him was always a memorable experience. On July 29, 2023, Melvin Klotzman, of Victoria, Texas, went to his heavenly home at the age of 92.

Melvin was born on September 26, 1930 in Selma, Alabama to Noah Joseph Klotzman and Ethel Barton Klotzman. He grew up in Montevallo, Alabama, living the life of a small-town kid in the later years of the Depression and World War Two, helping with the family store, squirrel hunting and generally getting into mischief. One of the boys he grew up with later wrote a book about those days and Melvin’s antics stole quite a few pages. Melvin was especially proud of his hitch-hiking skills and not only hitched around the country but even once made it to Guatemala and back (in the 1940’s!). In a time when, as one of his cousins described it, whoever had the money for college (for that semester) threw their bag in the back of a truck and hitched a ride to Tuscaloosa, Melvin attended the University of Alabama and graduated with a degree in chemical engineering without having a high school diploma (the story was that Montevallo High School didn’t know what to do with him after a few years so, at age 16, just told him to go to college). He was a member of the Zeta Beta Tau fraternity. As he was part of the Reserve Officers’ Training Corps and the Korean War was going on, he was soon shipped to Korea and served as a Lieutenant in the Chemical Corp, manning chemical smoke generators to make smoke screens to shield airfields from air attack. Before going overseas he managed to marry Mary Lou Scully (they eloped on August 16, 1952) and began a marriage that lasted almost 71 years. While in Korea (pronounced by Melvin as “Ko-ree-uh”), their first child Mark was born and was several months old before Melvin saw him for the first time.

Melvin came back from the war and worked for Gulf Oil, living in several places before settling in Victoria to run the Heyser Field in Bloomington. Mary Lou and Melvin had daughters Kay and Sara while living in Victoria. Melvin was a founding member of St. Francis Episcopal Church in 1958 and was reportedly the first person confirmed at the new church when it was still meeting at the Odd Fellows Hall before the current church was built. Melvin left Gulf Oil to work for himself in the 1960’s and ran Melvin Klotzman – Petroleum Consultant and Victoria Equipment & Supply Co. until he retired in 2014. There was not an oil or gas well problem that he didn’t want to try to solve or a piece of oilfield equipment that he wouldn’t try to make work for any situation. Melvin loved the oilfield and loved talking to people. After retiring for health reasons, he could still be found on the phone talking to his old friends and trying to solve some of the often-maddening mysteries of the Texas oilfield.

Melvin’s health failed him in his last few years, but he always managed to bounce back. Melvin may be gone but all who knew him have memories to carry for the rest of their lives. To say that Melvin won’t be forgotten is an understatement as it is impossible to forget a legend.

Melvin is survived by his wife, Mary Lou Klotzman; children Mark S. Klotzman (Melanie), Kay McCoy and Sara Solomon (Paul); grandchildren Spencer Klotzman (Rachel), Lauren Klotzman, Kathryn McCoy, Daniel Solomon, Sean Solomon, step-grandchildren Judge Timothy McCoy and Kristin McCoy Holub (Jaime), and great-grandchild Eliza Klotzman. He was predeceased by his parents, sister and brother-in-law, Betty & Malvern Sheffield, and son-in-law, Rawley McCoy. His beloved last dog, Vaquero, also predeceased him by 7 months.

Via Victoria Advocate

Robert Zweig, Psi (University of Alabama) 1980

It is with great sorrow to announce that Robert Neal Zweig, age 70, of Cumming, Georgia, passed away unexpectedly on April 6, 2023. His family is deeply saddened by his sudden death.

Robert Zweig was born on July 3, 1952 to Charles and Beverly Zweig in Chicago, Illinois. He was primarily raised in Birmingham, Alabama and attended The University of Alabama. In 2005, Robert met Kim Denise Zweig in Atlanta, Georgia and they went on to marry in 2009. They lived a fun-filled life on the lake with their 7 cats. Robert is survived by his loving wife, Kim Zweig. He will be forever remembered by his step-children, David Blake (Michele) Sanders and Leslie Anna Bradley. He was a cherished step-grandfather to Makenna Bradley, Kimber Bradley, Olivia Bradley, McKenzie Sanders, Braylee Sanders and Carter Sanders. He is also loved and remembered by brothers, Rick (Heather) Zweig and Dennis (Selah) Zweig. He was an adored uncle to Jenah (Nick) Myroniuk, Bree Lorenzo, Ivan (Heather) Zweig and Aaron (Megan) Zweig.

Robert had the biggest heart, was a kind and thoughtful soul and will be missed and remembered by the many lives he touched. He was very witty and incredibly compassionate. He loved the beach, boating, hiking, traveling, cooking, gardening and animals. He had a successful sales career, first in the clothing industry then later as a BMW consultant. He received numerous awards during his career. Upon his retirement, Robert volunteered his time for the Feral Cat Program of Georgia. He was extremely passionate for this cause.

Via Atlanta Journal-Constitution

Arizona

Michael L. Jeser, Alpha Omicron (University of Arizona) 1998

Michael Jeser loved family, community, Israel, and Judaism. Sadly, the President and CEO of the Jewish Federation of San Diego County succumbed to esophageal cancer on July 24, 2021. He was 45.

“Michael had a unique warmth and special charm that allowed him to connect to everyone he engaged with,” said Jack Maizel, Board Chair of the San Diego Jewish Federation. “He was a true leader, a fervent community builder, and a consummate family man. He was also a great and cherished friend who will be sorely missed.”

Michael’s tenure in San Diego began in 2018, the same year he posted a Facebook message that reflected on his initial diagnosis of cancer a year earlier at the age of 42: “One year ago tonight,” it read, “I was preparing for surgery from which I truly didn’t know if I would wake… So much has happened since. So much to be grateful for. So much to look forward to…”

Indeed there was. Returning to Southern California from Portland to take the helm at the San Diego Federation was a natural next step in a career that legacies are made of. Michael served in significant roles within the greater Federation system; in senior management fundraising and program positions with Jewish Community Centers, Jewish summer camps, and as the Executive Director of Hillel at the University of Southern California; and with Jewish World Watch in Los Angeles, also as Executive Director. He raised millions of dollars from local and global Jewish communities on behalf of countless people whose lives were made safer, healthier, more Jewish and more joyful because of his efforts.

His first year as CEO quickly revealed the leadership, fundraising, and community building skills he had amassed in 20 years as a Jewish communal professional. With a deft hand, Michael elevated Federation, leading the organization to new heights of respect as San Diego’s central address for the Jewish community. His quickly sealed a reputation as a thought partner, a collaborator, and a visionary. In 2010, he earned Zeta Beta Tau’s Heritage Award.

“Within Michael’s first year as CEO, there were two devastating attacks on the Jewish community, one of them in our own backyard – Poway,” recalled Darren Schwartz, Federation’s Chief Planning & Strategy Officer. “Michael reached out to the ADL (Anti-Defamation League) asking how we could better work together in the future to help ensure the safety of our community. Out of those discussions, a multi-year partnership was born to bring in a Security Director with high level expertise and a commitment to develop a vision for community security.”

It was one in a long line of community partnerships and leadership initiatives that Michael envisioned and saw to fruition. Federation’s Chief Development Officer, Jodie Graber, noted several others that helped lay the groundwork for a strong Jewish future. These include the Pauline Foster Women’s Philanthropy Leadership Institute; the launch of A.C.T. (Ask. Connect. Thank.), a volunteer engagement effort; “Cornerstone,” a now annual Major Gifts Event; rededicating Federation energies toward Legacy commitments; and during the global pandemic, collaborating with the San Diego Jewish Community Foundation and the Leichtag Foundation to raise more than $3 million dollars for the COVID-19 Emergency Fund.

“Michael left us with a clear vision of how we can best realize our potential,” Maizel said. “His inspiration will carry us intentionally into the future.”

The pandemic fundraising effort occurred largely while Michael was hospitalized after his cancer returned. He faced a complicated surgery in March 2020, coinciding with the onset of COVID, and spent a month in the hospital. It was only after several days in the ICU that he learned of the successful fundraising efforts that helped so many Jewish community organizations that were facing financial distress, and ultimately, the people who keep them running.

Michael’s limitless compassion and passion, rooted in his Jewish values that were imbued in him from a young age, were driving forces in everything he did. He was devoted to area Holocaust Survivors, raising critical funds to ensure that this increasingly vulnerable population received lifesaving services that allowed them to live with dignity. Seniors, teens, young families, children, and young professionals all benefited from his unwavering commitment to create a vibrant Jewish life today and for generations to come. He was simply an unstoppable force when it came to community building.

Of all of these efforts and more, Susan Halliday, Federation’s Chief Financial Officer, said, “Michael had a such a deep well of knowledge of Federation and Jewish community more broadly that he was able to speak with confidence about Federation’s work and relevance within our community.”

Added Maizel, “Michael was, for our community, the right leader at the right time.”

One might say that Michael’s career path was part of the family business. Modeling his father, Paul, a veteran fundraiser and Jewish communal professional, and his mother, Faye, a Jewish music educator with JCCs and Day Schools, he was immersed in Jewish life even before he was born.

An iconic photograph in the Jeser home shows his parents and two older brothers in front of a sign that reads, “We Are One.” It was captured during an historic 1975 mission to Israel with more than 1,000 participants. A close inspection reveals a pregnant Faye. In a 2018 interview with Giving Back magazine, Michael said, “My coming in to the world is part of the Jewish story. I was coming in as part of a family – not just a nuclear family, but one that expands across the U.S. and thousands of miles across the ocean.”

Ever since, Israel was woven into the fabric of Michael’s Jewish identity. He traveled to Israel more than 30 times during his life, not including the year he lived in Israel after finishing college in 1998. A graduate of the Zelikow School of Jewish Nonprofit Management in 2004, Michael was awarded the Sherut L’Am Award in July in recognition of exceptional service to the Jewish people, an award that had also been bestowed upon his father, Paul, years earlier.

Erik Ludwig, Director of the Zelikow School, shared, “The Sherut L’Am Award is well-deserved recognition of Michael’s exemplary service to the Jewish people. The professional achievements, the friendships, and the quiet repair of a broken world are testament to the sacred intention of Michael’s leadership and his gift to future generations.”

Thousands of miles away, San Diego’s Sister City in Israel, Sha’ar HaNegev, was never far from Michael’s thoughts. Situated just kilometers away from the Gaza border, the community is automatically at risk when conflicts arise. Michael visited the region many times, providing practical and moral support, another reflection of his deep commitment to being one among the Jewish people everywhere.

“Michael’s passion and connection to Israel ignited a rebirth of our relationship with Sha’ar HaNegev” Schwartz explained. “Visiting the region and hosting Mayor Ofir Libstein in San Diego led to broad-based plans that are connecting residents in both communities and bringing us closer together.”

Under Michael’s leadership, Federation provided a variety of on-the-ground funding support, including resilience-building programs to help children suffering from PTSD. In addition, Federation created a year-long Jewish identity-building Global Partnership Program, engaging Jewish teens from San Diego, Sha’ar HaNegev, Bulgaria, and Russia; fostered and expanded teen connections between San Diego and Israel; and launched a Community Captains project, creating partnerships between local San Diegans and organizations that serve the Sha’ar HaNegev area.

“Overall, Michael dealt with a lot – Poway, his cancer, a challenging campaign, a major rise in anti-Semitism, COVID, acclimating to a new community – it would have been too much for most, but it actually seemed to give him purpose and energy,” shared Federation Marketing Director Lisa McGuigan. “Despite everything, he forged new relationships, brokered new partnerships, pushed new thinking, and really showed his face across the San Diego Jewish community in a way that I don’t think people expected. He reinvigorated Federation – a legacy that he would be proud of and one that will greatly benefit the community for years to come.”

Interim CEO Heidi Gantwerk also reflected on Michael’s legacy. “In Hannah Senesh’s poem, Yesh Cochavim (There are Stars), she writes of people like stars; they may be gone, but their light continues to shine on us all,” she said. “Michael was a star. He may not have been in San Diego for long, but he shone so brightly during his time here that he continues to light the way for all of us, as we work together to build on his vision for a thriving, connected, secure Jewish people in San Diego and around the world.”

Michael Jeser is survived by his wife, Laura, and his 4-year-old daughter, Eleanore; his parents, Faye and Paul Jeser; brothers, Marc and Dave; and countless friends and colleagues from around the world.

California

Robert (Bob) ‘Tiger’  Zelinka, Alpha Rho (University of California – Los Angeles) 1952

Robert “Bob” Zelinka, California High School and College football star turned Oregon State University football coach and later Pacific Coast Conference football official, dies at 93.

Zelinka grew up in Los Angeles, Calif., and was an unstoppable Fairfax High School All-City guard and captain of the ’47 eleven. He was a 3-year letterman and excellent student who also found time to give back to the community as a camp counselor and swim and ski instructor for children.

He discovered early on that he was an excellent athlete and even later graduated with a bachelor’s degree in physical fitness, becoming the first college graduate of his eastern-European immigrant family.

Zelinka’s athletic ability and love of football created a lifelong passion and career that he loved. After high school, he initially attended Jr. College where he won a national championship as a guard for the Santa-Ana “Don’s” and led them to the Jr. Rose-bowl. He then became a UCLA Bruin and member of the ZBT’s. Coming in as a Junior in 1950, Zelinka made his mark early as a force to be reckoned with and self-proclaimed that he was “mighty rough to handle.” As a Senior, he was touted as saying, “I’ll bust ’em up and break ’em in little pieces.” Anyone who knew Zelinka understood that he took football very seriously and would stop at nothing to be the best.

In 1952 and 1953, Zelinka took his Naval Training Center San Diego football team to the Poinsettia Bowl and Salad Bowl, respectively.

Playing football would not be Zelinka’s only claim to fame. In fact, his coaching career would be what he was ultimately famous for. At a young 25 years-of-age, “Tiger,” as he would soon be known, became a Beaver when he was named assistant head football coach, by Oregon State’s new head coach, Tommy Prothro. He was the youngest coach ever in Oregon State College history, and in the United States until recently. Former UCLA head-coach, Red Sanders, once called him, “The finest coaching prospect to attend UCLA since I’ve been here.”

Tiger quickly took Oregon State to the 1956 Rose Bowl as Pacific Coast Conference champions. He found himself in the newspapers, nearly weekly because of his success coaching Oregon State. They followed his coaching style and his personal life, including publishing his marriage and the arrival of his children.

In 1962 Zelinka won big. He and his star player, Heisman Memorial Trophy winner, Terry Baker, won the Liberty Bowl. It was an epic game and would go down in Oregon State history as one of the best wins ever.

Zelinka’s Oregon State College coaching career would come to an end in 1965, after another run at the Rose Bowl. A new head coach had his own ideas how to manage the team, moving Zelinka out, and the Beavers have never played in another Rose Bowl since. Although a head-coaching job was not in the cards for him, Zelinka went on to become a Head Linesman for the Pacific Coast Conference and officiated many bowl games over the years. He spent time in the offseason trading lumber and continued to do that throughout the years following his officiating career until the time he retired.

Bob Zelinka grew up in the limelight, dominating every aspect of football that he attempted, achieving countless accolades, and remaining a humble and warm-hearted man. He has been inducted into the State of Oregon Sports Hall of Fame, Oregon State University Hall of Fame, and Southern California Jewish Sports Hall of Fame. He was known well for being a faithful friend and even continued to meet with his high school sports club, The Unicorns, monthly until the day he died. He was larger than life. Bob “Tiger” Zelinka will forever be known as coach.

Zelinka’s family said he passed away peacefully at the Los Altos home of his significant other’s family, early Sunday morning. To everyone, he was a football star, great friend, funny-man, life of the party, and truly a remarkable man who lived a big, bright, remarkable life. To his family, he was a loving partner, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather who made a big impact on the world and in their lives and who will forever be in their hearts.

Bob Zelinka is survived by significant other, Roslyn Millet; children, Karen, Robbyn, Leslie “Choo” (Matt), Phillip (Mary), and Edy (Tim); grandchildren, Jaren, Joseph, Mallory, Shaun, Kara, Joshua, Zachary, Brittney, Curtis, Cody, and Jamie; and great-grandchildren, Mya, Jason, Jude, McKenna, Maisen, Nora, Maggie, Ezekiel, Peyton, Delilah and Rielly.

Preceded in death by brother, Leonard; wives, Audrey, Marilyn, and Corrine “Corky”; significant other Sue; and grandson, Kelly.

Via The Oregonian

Fred L. Karren, Alpha Eta (University of California – Berkeley) 1959

Fred Karren passed away peacefully in his sleep on October 4, 2023

Fred possessed an unparalleled capacity to be interested in people and for friendship. He cared deeply for people, and he positively affected countless lives and organizations. His interests were wide ranging, particularly travel, and the visual and performing arts. He will be greatly missed by his family and his countless friends.

Fred was born in San Antonio, Texas. When he was two months old, he moved to Oakland, CA with his parents the late Joe and Mildred Karren. He graduated from Oakland High school in 1954. He then attended UC Berkeley where he was a member of Zeta Beta Tau Fraternity. He earned a BS in Business in 1958 and a BS in Architecture in 1968.

In 1963 his was introduced to the love of his life Beth Davis Karren. They were married in 1964 in Toledo, Ohio and enjoyed 53 wonderful years of marriage until Beth passed away in 2017. Their daughter, Leslie Karren, the apple of Fred’s eye, was born in 1967. In addition to a wonderful father-daughter relationship they enjoyed working side by side in the family real estate business. Fred, Beth, and Leslie, enjoyed many family trips throughout the world, and spending time in their vacation homes in Napa and Palm Desert.

He had an over 50-year career as an architect. Fred designed or remodeled many homes and retail stores throughout the bay area. He served on the Piedmont Planning commission for many years and chaired it twice. His architectural expertise was called upon when realtors had a home to sell, and they would seek Fred’s advice on how the home could be remodeled to benefit the new owners.

Fred kept active until the very end. On his last night, Fred went to the Opera, and had a night cap with his daughter at her home, kissed her goodnight and said, “See you in the morning, and we will go for coffee.”

He enjoyed weekly bridge and dominos games with his friends. He was a big supporter of the arts. He had season tickets and supported the San Francisco Symphony, San Francisco Opera, San Francisco Playhouse, Berkeley Repertory Theater, and many other institutions.

He loved animals. He adopted his dog Bentley, an adorable terrier-chihuahua mix, in 2018. He encouraged his friends to do the same because so many dogs, especially senior dogs, need a good home.

Over the years he was involved with many clubs and organizations. He was a member of The Pacific Union Club, The Family Club, Claremont Country Club, El Dorado Country Club, Marrakesh Country Club and Temple Sinai in Oakland. He had served on the boards of Sinai Memorial Chapel, Jewish Community Federation of the East Bay, Oakland Ballet, Oakland Symphony, Goodwill Industries and the 100 Club.

In addition to being survived by his daughter, Fred is survived by his sister Ann Karren Gitlis, his brother-in-law Sam Davis and his wife Joanne Cuthbertson, his nieces Sara Gitlis Schneider (Michael Schneider), Hadley Davis Reierson (Lee Reierson), Carrie Davis (Michael Lebovich), step-niece Jennifer Thomas (Michael), step-nephew Alex Cuthbertson (Elizabeth Meriwether), and five grand nephews, two grand nieces, three step-grand nephews, and one step-grandniece. He is also survived by many extended family members and friends. He was a loyal and great family member and friend.

Via San Francisco Chronicle

Michael S. Coughlin, Kappa Nu (University of San Francisco) 1992

Michael Stephen Coughlin “Mike”, age 53 passed away peacefully, yet unexpectedly, in his home as a result of a pulmonary embolism (massive blood clot) on August 5, 2023.

Mike’s life flame was ignited the same day as the Lunar Landing in July 1969 with his birth following on April 25, 1970. He attended St. Veronica Catholic School, graduated from Serra High School, and earned his Bachelor of Science in Business Administration, Hospitality Management Major at University of San Francisco. He was an active member of Zeta Beta Tau fraternity, serving as their Treasurer. Mike served in an advisory capacity for both S.V. and USF Hospitality Management Program. Mike was still close to many of his S.V., Serra, and USF friends, creating great memories over five decades.

During his teen years, Mike worked at the family business, Galli’s Sanitary Bakery, creating strong bonds with his grandparents, aunt, uncle, and cousins. About this time, unbeknownst to Mike, a young lady set her sights on him. Thanks to Lori asking for his phone number and initiating their first date, they went on to be married in February 1995. Their son, Mitchell, was born in October 1997. Mike was the epitome of Mr. Mom; he never shied away from a dirty diaper, crying baby, or tangled mess of his nieces curly red hair. He was a wonderful dad, uncle, godfather, friend, and mentor always nurturing, guiding, encouraging, and occasionally redirecting the next generation.

Mike had an extensive, successful career. He interned at The Fairmont Hotel, San Francisco, as a front desk clerk, while at USF; he turned that experience into a 23 year career that led to the position of Director, Finance and Business Support. During his time at The Fairmont, San Francisco, he was awarded “Leader of the Year” for 2003. Following his mentor and dear friend, Valerie Thompson, he worked as Director, Procurement at Able Services, and Controller at Service by Medallion. Many of Mike’s colleagues and business associates became lifelong friends.

Mike was the definition of style, from his perfectly coiffed hair, designer jeans, and stylish shoes, to his impeccably clean luxury sports car. Mike loved drinking a great glass (or full bottle) of wine, hanging out with good friends/family, cooking delicious meals, traveling the globe, and enjoying a good Sidecar cocktail.

Mike is survived by his wife of 28 years, Lori Coughlin; his son, Mitchell Coughlin; his parents, Stephen and Toni Coughlin; his in-laws, Patrick and Brenda Haniger; his sister, Bridget Kelley (husband, Sean); his sister-in-law, Kristi Johnson (husband, Chris); his nieces, Caitlin and Allison Kelley; his nephew, Tyler Johnson; several godchildren; numerous aunts and uncles; many generations of cousins; and his precious dogs, Julz and Kobe.

Via Legacy.com

William M. Birnkrant, Alpha Delta (University of Southern California) 1964

William Birnkrant, 81, will be remembered for his unwavering support of family, sense of humor, and infectious smile. William, better known as Bill, Dad, or Poppy, was born in Bay City, Michigan before moving to California. He later studied business at USC, where he was a proud Trojan and member of the Zeta Beta Tau fraternity. The sunshine of his family, Bill loved going to the beach, watching The Price is Right, and reading the LA Times every morning (especially the obituary section!). He loved to travel, but always came back to Los Angeles, which he considered to be absolute “paradise.” Bill’s distinct cackling laughter and his positivity made him so easy to like. He was grateful every day to be alive, and encouraged everyone around to appreciate the sweet and simple things in life.

Bill leaves behind a legacy of love and joy. He is fondly remembered, and his life is celebrated by his daughters Tracy (Kent), Karen (Jack), and Michelle (Steve); his grandchildren, the prides of his life, Matthew, Brendan, Hannah, Tyler, Joshua, Ryan, and Jamison; and his sister Joyce. He also leaves behind his endlessly patient caregiver Loren, who put up with his antics for many years; his friends, many from Hillcrest Country Club, where he was a proud member for most of his life; and his dog, Rusty.

Bill follows his wife of 58 years, Janet Brooks Birnkrant, who passed away in late June of this year. They are certainly sitting together up in Heaven now eating ice cream and watching bad TV. In addition to Janet, Bill is predeceased by his parents Miriam and Harold, and his beloved dog Buddy.

Via Los Angeles Times

Colorado

Douglas J. Antoon, Iota (University of Denver) 1979

Attorney Douglas “Doug” James Antoon, died unexpectedly on February 2, 2023, after a short illness. He was only 66 years old. His family is deeply saddened and shocked by his sudden death.  Douglas was born in Methuen, Massachusetts on October 28, 1956.

Doug is survived by his brother Daniel and his wife Debra Antoon of Jensen Beach, Fl., his brother Gregory and his wife Christine of Pennsylvania, his sister-in-law Frances Antoon of Stuart, Fl., several beloved nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, and his sweet cats Grace and Mercy.

Doug is predeceased by his father Samuel Antoon, his mother Ann Antoon, his brothers Joseph and Dana Antoon, his sister-in-law Gina and his nephew Gregory Douglas Antoon.

Doug was educated at Central Catholic High School in Lawrence, Massachusetts, the University of Denver where he received his Bachelor of Arts and at Suffolk University Law School where he received his Juris Doctorate.  He was a star debate team member throughout high school and college years and always a Deans list student. He was a seasoned and very well-respected attorney regardless of where he resided. Doug was known for being incredibly passionate about his work.

He most recently was Senior Legal Counsel for Philips Healthcare North America where he made many close connections and had a tremendous impact on the clients he served.

Doug loved his volunteer work as a Juvenile Justice System Mentor where he mentored youth from 13 to 21 years old to help them create a path for their future success.

Doug was a pillar in his community of Albuquerque, New Mexico where he resided for the last two decades.  He was passionate about politics from a very young age and assisted in running campaigns throughout his time not only in New Mexico but also early in his career in Massachusetts making many close friends along the way.

He had countless friends we would like to thank for their continued connection over the years; but the family would like to extend a heartfelt special thank you to Gary Gallant who was a rock during Doug’s last days for him and the family.

Doug was deeply connected to his congregation and worship team in his ministry “The Way” and was blessed by the close bonds that stayed by his side always praying for him. A special thanks to Terry and the amazing team that assembled to support the family during this difficult time.

As a man of faith, Doug would embrace a celebration of the immortality promised to all by Christ. He would love to be remembered with funny, strange, or silly stories that celebrate what was good and blessed in his life.

When peace, like a river attendeth my way

When sorrow like sea billows roll

Whatever my lot, thou has taught me to say,

It is well, it is well, with my soul.

Connecticut

Joel Sable, Alpha Alpha (University of Connecticut) 1967

We lost a true gentleman, the kind you rarely see anymore, caring, considerate and kind to all.

Joel Sable, husband of Kyle Annulli-Sable of Manchester, formerly of West Hartford, died June 10, 2023.

Joel is also survived by his loving and devoted daughters of whom he was so proud. Jennifer Kabakoff, a teacher in West Hartford and her husband, Randy, of West Hartford and Amy Churchill, a doctor in Acton, MA and her husband, Jon. He is also survived by his grandchildren Eli, Lucy and Leo Kabakoff and Charlotte and Reed Churchill. He is also survived by nieces and nephews Adam and Shelby Annulli of Glastonbury and their children, Allison Annulli of Manchester, and Lon and Susan Annulli of Manchester and his Steinberg nieces and nephews.

Joel was blessed with many friends, including a very special awe-inspiring 70 year friendship with Stuey Roth, with whom he ardently rejoiced (or lamented) every UCONN basketball game. They were longtime season ticket holders, attending many national championship games, including the Final Fours. He was also a Red Sox, Patriots and Celtics fan.

He was a 1963 graduate of Conard High School, a 1967 graduate of UCONN and member of Phi Sigma Delta fraternity, and a 1970 graduate of UCONN Law School. He also served six years in the Reserves.

He and partner, Michael Berman, established the Berman and Sable Law Firm in Hartford. He completed his distinguished 50 year law career with Rogin Nassau. A highlight of his career was being admitted to argue cases before the 2nd Court of Appeals.

He and Kyle happily loved life together for 33 years traveling around the world to destinations as varied as Antarctica, African Safari, Europe, the Baltic Nations, the Orient-Express, Egypt, the Caribbean and beloved Nantucket. They also “collected” baseball parks around the country when the Red Sox were playing there. Kyle always described Joel as the “best husband ever” (he was also described this way by her jealous friends).

Joel was the light of our lives. He was easy, fun, gracious, endlessly funny, adventurous, curious, a student of current affairs, and always a consummate professional. He had a deep love of family and friends who are thankful for the memories with Joel as a source of light, love and laughter. He was unimaginably smart and funny. He would immediately make you laugh. We will miss absolutely everything about him. We are all better for having known him.

Via Hartford Courant

Florida

Ronald H. Klee, Alpha Iota of Phi Epsilon Pi (University of Miami) 1961

Ronald H. Klee, a one-of-a-kind character, was pronounced dead on June 9, 2023, but was likely killed late on the evening of June 8, by Orlando Arcia and Ozzie Albies as the excitement of yet another comeback win to sweep the lowly Mets was simply too much for his almost 85-year-old body to handle.

His humorous outlook on life, poor poker play, and his ability to find the funny side of any situation made him an easy person to love…in doses. And he considered everyone to be his best friend.

Ronnie was proud of his sick sense of humor and his many accomplishments, which are mostly too unremarkable to list, but as he would insist, we shall list some anyway: he had an 840 credit score, carelessly contributed to 529 accounts long after his grandkids graduated, listened to his TV at volume 72 despite no admitted hearing loss, and had an impressive collection of timeshares he purchased off eBay and clothes he purchased off clearance racks of stores no longer in business.

Ronnie was the only franchise-long season ticket holder honored by the Atlanta Falcons to install his seats into Mercedes-Benz Stadium when it was built (true story). Alas, after 57 seasons, he will have to watch the Falcons win their first Super Bowl from above. Thanks a lot, Kyle Shanahan.

Ronnie was not only a committed Falcons and Braves fan, but he was also committed to falling hard and surviving. Yep, Ronnie fell at least 16 times, tore ligaments off ladders, broke an arm at Planet Hollywood, fractured two vertebrae in his neck at Studio Movie Grill, busted his rear end in Times Square, passed out at funerals, shattered the glass door of Clark Howard’s office with his head, and tripped over so many curbs with such enthusiasm that Larry David named a sitcom after him. And he never sued anybody! Ronnie fell hardest for his wife, Rita Benamy Klee, to whom he was married for over 63 years, bless her heart. But his latest fall in the bathroom at Truist Park was the accident he ultimately couldn’t survive. So yeah, he loved the Braves and they basically killed him twice.

Ronnie is also survived by his son, Stephen; daughter-in-law, Pam; his three grandchildren, Marissa, Olivia, and Simon; brother and sister-in-law, Larry and Judie Klee; sister-in-law, Gloria Benamy; and a host of family and friends who could always count on Ronnie to brighten their day. Ronnie and Rita traveled the world together and he lovingly cared for her as she has battled with Alzheimer’s for the past 10 years, so she will certainly miss her best friend most of all.

Ronnie had an eclectic taste in sports, cheering for teams that aligned with his mood, the weather, or the winning streaks. He grew up in Chicago and so also loved the Bears and Cubs. Over 60 years as an Atlanta resident, he would proudly don the colors of UGA, Georgia Tech (yep), and the University of Miami, the college from which he claimed to have been alumnus in 1960.

Ronnie worked 35 years for the A.C. Nielsen Company and 20 years for Sears.

He was a dedicated volunteer for AARP, the MJCCA, Clark Howard, and longtime usher for the A.A. Synagogue and Fox Theatre.

We’ll gather to celebrate Ronnie’s life at a graveside funeral to be held at Crest Lawn Memorial Park, on Monday, June 12, 2023, at 2 PM, where he and Rita had the previous misfortune of burying their sons, Marty and Robert Klee, many years ago. He is additionally predeceased by his older brother, Bert Klee; and brother-in-law, Freddy Benamy. He expects everyone who ever knew him to attend the service where we will thankfully not read the 30-minute eulogy he wrote for himself.

Via Atlanta Journal-Constitution

Illinois

John Duslack, Alpha Beta (University of Chicago) 1970

John E. Duslack, devoted son of the late Helene (nee Wilczewski) & late Raymond Duslack; loving brother of Raymond Duslack, Jr. & Richard Duslack; loving godfather of Barbara Foss; dear friend of Sheila Naughten; fond cousin of Mary Kay Thompson, Monica Dewitt, James Devane, Therese Zidron, Pablo Wilz, Richard Duslak, Frank (Dawn) Duslak, Kim Ackerson & many more. Visitation Thursday, May 4, 2023, 4-8 p.m. at Zarzycki Manor Chapels, Ltd., 8999 S. Archer Ave., Willow Springs. Funeral Friday from the funeral home to the Church of SS. Cyril & Methodius. Mass 11:30 a.m. Interment Resurrection Cemetery. Longtime employee of ComEd/Exelon; Former president of the Data Processing Management Association; Member of the Zeta Beta Tau Fraternity; proud alumnus of the University of Chicago, St. Mel H.S., St. Casimir Grammar School, the Boy Scouts, & Sea Explorers.

Via Chicago Tribune

Indiana

Jay Brodey, Beta Gamma (Indiana University Bloomington) 1964

Jay Michael Brodey, 80, a retired attorney, passed away peacefully on May 10, 2023. Born on January 12, 1943, to Eva (nee Zibil) and Simon Brodey. Jay was a lifelong resident of Marion County.

Jay was a graduate of Shortridge High School and received a BA degree from Indiana University in 1964. While at Indiana University, he was a member of the Zeta Beta Tau fraternity. After graduating, He attended Indiana University School of Law, earning his JD in 1968. Jay launched his legal career as a Deputy Attorney General (Chief Trial Deputy), followed by serving as a Marion County Deputy Prosecuting Attorney. In 1975, he launched a 30-year career with Harrison & Moberly in Indianapolis, where he served as a Managing Senior Partner before retiring. In 1965, he married his beloved wife, Judith Epstein, who passed away in 2006. He is survived by his daughters, Cynthia Brodey (Mark Pay) of Fishers and Melissa Brodey, of Noblesville; brother, Lawerence Brodey of North Carolina; brothers in law, Mark L Epstein (Alison) of Colorado, and David Epstein (Cheryl)of Connecticut, as well as several nieces, nephews, and cousins.

May his memory serve as a blessing.

Timothy A. Goedde, Alpha Alpha (Purdue University) 2012

Timothy “Tim” Alan Goedde, 33, of Carmel, Indiana, passed away Tuesday, May 2, 2023 at Eskenazi Hospital in Indianapolis, Indiana.

Tim was born in Evansville, Indiana on July 27, 1989 to Vernon and Jeanne (Taylor) Goedde. He was a 2008 graduate of Reitz Memorial High School. During his time at Memorial, Tim excelled at athletics. He was on the football, basketball, and baseball teams. After high school, Tim went on to attend Purdue University where he graduated with a Bachelor’s of Arts in History. He was a founding member of the Zeta Beta Tau Fraternity Chapter at Purdue. Upon graduating, Tim went to work at Marian Inc. in Indianapolis, IN. He later, and most recently, worked for Washing Systems, LLC as a chemical sales representative. In his free time, Tim had a deep passion for music. He was an innately talented, self-taught piano and guitar player. He also enjoyed playing golf. Tim was an enthusiastic sports fan. His favorite teams were the Purdue Boilermakers, Chicago Cubs, and Indianapolis Colts. Tim deeply valued his friends and their friendships. He traveled across the country to support and spend time with his friends any chance he had. Most importantly, Tim loved his family. He had a great appreciation for family gatherings and the traditions that coincided with them. Tim’s loving spirit and contagious sense of humor will be missed by those who knew and loved him.

Tim is survived by his mother, Jeanne (Taylor) Goedde; father, Vernon Goedde; brothers, Benjamin Goedde (Lauren) all of Evansville, IN and Brian Goedde (Amanda) of Carmel, IN; nieces and nephews, Ethan, Emma, Aaron, and Meredith Goedde; and was blessed with a large extended family and many friends.

Via Legacy.com

Louisiana

Peter Aron, Sigma (Tulane University) 1969

Peter Arthur Aron, 77, born in Memphis, Tennessee, died peacefully on July 14, 2023. He is survived by his beloved wife of 51 years, Erika Kostron Aron of Naples, FL. and Kings Point, NY; by his two loving daughters; Heather Schulman, son-in-law Ross and four grandchildren of Naples, FL; and Holly Okner, son-in-law Martin and two grandchildren of Manhattan; and by his brother Robert Aron. His sister Jacqueline predeceased him. Peter was the son of the late Jack R. Aron and Jane Baerwald Aron.

After his graduation from Tulane University (B.A. 1969), Peter continued a long tradition of family patriotism, following his great-grandfather, Hermann (who fought for the Union at Vicksburg during the Civil War) and his father, Jack (who was a U.S. Naval Officer in World War II). Peter served two years in Vietnam as a 1st Lieutenant in the U.S. Army. He was awarded the Bronze Star and Department of Defense Joint Service Commendation Medal for meritorious Vietnam service, among other decorations.

Brilliant, widely read and highly accomplished, Peter applied himself to countless philanthropic efforts. He inherited a love of the sea and maritime activities; he founded and served for 20 years as President of the South Street Seaport Foundation (NY). He also served for more than 30 years as Trustee and 10 years as Chairman of the South Street Seaport Museum (NY). During that time he and his father acquired and supported the restoration of the 4-masted bark “Peking”. He was a Trustee and Corporate Member of the Woods Hole Oceanographic Institute (MA) and Chairman of its board’s Deep Ocean Exploration Committee. In 2005, Peter spearheaded a family gift in honor of his father to the Library of America’s Guardians of American Letters Fund to ensure that Richard Henry Dana’s “Two Years Before the Mast and other Voyages” would be kept in print. In 2008, the National Maritime Historical Society awarded him its annual David A. O’Neil Sheet Anchor Award for his support of maritime history and preservation projects. Peter was dedicated to education.

A 1965 graduate of Avon Old Farms School (CT), he served as a Director and Chairman of the Board for over 40 years. At Tulane University he served as Vice Chairman of the Board of Administrators, Chairman of its Faculty and Student Affairs Committee, and a member of the Development Committee. Tulane recognized him as the University’s Distinguished Alumnus in 2000. He also served as a Trustee and Board Officer of The Episcopal School and the Brearley School in New York City.

Peter perpetuated his family’s extensive commitment to the field of medicine. He served as Trustee, Vice Chairman of Lenox Hill Hospital in New York (1975-2003), and Honorary Life Trustee. He was also a Board Member of the Tulane University Medical Center in New Orleans. He was a Director and Vice President of the National Neurofibromatosis Foundation, Chairman of its Advisory Council, and a major supporter of research to discover the NF gene-for which he received a Public Service award in 1994. He was a recipient of the Distinguished Trustee award from the United Hospital Foundation in 1995 and was named Man of the Year by the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation in 1998.

He was actively involved in arts and letters. He advised and supported the Asia Society, as Trustee, Vice Chairman and Chairman of the Friends of Asian Art, and Honorary Life Trustee. He was a member of the Brooklyn Museum Asian Art Council. As a member of the Japanese Art Society of America, he was a major supporter of its award-winning, peer-reviewed journal “Impressions.” Peter was a founding supporter of the “Imagine Solutions Conference” in Naples, Florida. Following the September 11, 2001 attack on the World Trade Center, Peter suggested and funded a commission by the New York Philharmonic to memorialize this tragic event. The resulting work, John Adams’s, “On the Transmigration of Souls,” premiered at Avery Fisher Hall in September 2002 and was awarded the 2003 Pulitzer Prize for music.

Peter was a dedicated community servant and a lifetime resident of Kings Point, NY. He served for over 20 years as an elected Trustee and Committee Chairman for the Village of Kings Point. He was an astute businessman and investor, serving as an Independent Trustee for Fiduciary Trust International Open-end Mutual Funds; Assistant Vice President of J. Aron & Co. of NY (1971-1981); Director of William B. Reily & Co., Inc. (N.O.) President of Ridgefield Inc., since 1998 (LA); Director and Vice President of J. Aron & Co., Inc. (LA); Vice President, Board member and valued senior advisor of Lafayette Enterprises, Inc. (1983-2023). He was elected to Who’s Who in America (1998).

He was a member of Zeta Beta Tau Fraternity at Tulane University; The University Club (NY); The Union Club (NY); The New York Yacht Club; The Naples Sailing and Yacht Club (FL); The Knickerbocker Yacht Club (NY); The School of Design (N.O.); Conferie Chevalier du Tastevin (N.O.); and the Chaine des Rôtisseurs (FL).

Peter was an avid reader and bibliophile. Over the years he satisfied many other interests, including becoming a licensed helicopter pilot, a certified open water scuba diver, an accomplished sailor and photographer. He enjoyed the opera and symphony, and collected Asian art, maritime art, antique tools and farm implements.

One of his greatest joys was participating in Mardi Gras every year in New Orleans where he was a member of the Krewe of Rex, Hermes, Bacchus, and Mystic. Love of his family, friends and a desire to be of service to his community were always the essential features of his character. He cherished his relationships and despite his many interests and accomplishments, Peter’s true love and commitment were reserved for his family and its future. His sense of humor, humility, generosity, loyalty and devotion benefited everyone he knew.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made, in Peter’s memory, to the J. Aron Charitable Foundation, Inc., of which he was President and Executive Director for over 40 years, 100 Jericho Quadrangle #214; Jericho, NY 11753 (annual report is available from the Foundation and from the New York Attorney General’s Charities Bureau).

Via The Times-Picayune

Norman R. Lepow, Sigma (Tulane University) 1952

Norman Roy Lepow was born on February 1, 1932 in New Orleans, Louisiana to parents Mollie (nee Heiman) and Charles Lepow. He passed away peacefully on October 2, 2023 after a lengthy battle with dementia. Norman grew up in New Orleans with his parents, siblings and many fun-loving cousins. He graduated in 1949 from Alcee Fortier High School. He proudly graduated from the University of Alabama (Roll Tide). Throughout his life, Norman remained close to his Zeta Beta Tau fraternity brothers. Norman served in the United States Air Force, stationed at Eglin Air Force Base in Florida. After college and military service, he moved back to New Orleans to start several small businesses. It was there that he met the love of his life, Sophia Greenberg, who was widowed with two young children. Norman and Sophia married in 1959 and Norman adopted Debbie and Ron. After Sophia’s father died, they moved to Shreveport to join Sophia’s mother in their family business. Their third child, Gloria, arrived in 1964.

In October 2020, after 60 years together, Sophia passed away with Norman at her side. They worked together for many years at Blue Grass Liquor Company, Shreveport Beverage Agency, Mid State Beer Distributing and Cuban Liquor. He and Sophia traveled the world both for work and pleasure. He was creative, entrepreneurial and knew a good product when he saw one (and even created a few along the way)! After retirement, Norman became certified in pilates instruction and opened his own studio, Fundamental Fitness. For a time, he had the first and only pilates studio in Shreveport.

Norman was a sportsman. He loved water skiing as a young man, tennis and golf. He fished, rode horses and enjoyed bird hunting. Mostly, he liked to have fun. His friends and family could always count on him for a good prank or a dirty joke.

Norman was preceded in death by his parents, brothers Morris Lepow, Sol Lepow, and sister Rosalyn Gordon Lord, and his beloved grandson Charles Ziegler. He is survived by his children, Debbie Ziegler of Houston, Ron (Marti) Lepow of Shreveport, and Gloria (Daniel) Reisner of Chicago. He is also survived by his grandchildren Jeffrey Ziegler, Melanie Ziegler, Sam (Lane) Lepow, Brice Lepow, William Reisner, and Jacob Reisner; and great-grandchildren Jayda, Jay and Joseph. Norman had a special place in his heart for his many nephews and nieces.

Massachusetts

Robert P. Malavich, Alpha Mu of Phi Sigma Delta (University of Massachusetts – Amherst) 1969

Robert P. (Bob) Malavich, 78, passed away Aug. 8 with family at his side after a period of declining health. Despite his health issues, Bob had remained active in shaping the direction of the city he loved and where he spent his life.

He was the loving husband of Anne (Donovan) Malavich, with whom he celebrated 48 years of marriage on Aug. 2nd.

Bob was born on May 5, 1945 the son of William Sr., and Sophie (Szuksta) Malavich, who predeceased him. Bob attended Lowell schools and was a graduate of Lowell High School, Wentworth Institute, UMass Amherst and Boston University.

He was a proud Lowellian and gifted city planner. He worked for the City of Lowell Department of Planning and Development for 34 years, and, in time, became director of the DPD. He loved Lowell and worked to make it a model for city planners everywhere.

His career as a city planner enabled him to get in on the ground floor of the creation of the Lowell National Historical Park.

Bob was a member of the Jaycees for many years and was actively involved in the construction of the Jaycee Place apartments on Bowers Street and the renovation of Rogers Hall as apartments. Both complexes serve older Lowell residents of different incomes.

After he retired from the City of Lowell DPD, Bob took a similar position in West Warwick R.I., but drove home every weekend to his beloved city and home. When he left that position, he returned full-time to Lowell and became a member of the Planning Board. He was still a member at the time of his death.

Besides his wife Anne, he is also survived by his daughter Erica Malavich McCumber and her husband Jonathan McCumber of Lowell; his son Daniel Malavich and his wife Lauren of Dallas, GA. He also is survived by his three favorite people, all of whom called him “Papa,” his grandchildren, Juniper McCumber of Lowell and Donovan and Alina Malavich of Dallas, GA. He was the brother of Richard Malavich and his wife Donna, of Nashua, NH, and Thomas Malavich of Lowell.

Steven L. Oreck, Xi (Massachusetts Institute of Technology) 1970

It is with great sadness we announce the sudden passing of Steven L. Oreck, M.A., M.D. on August 11th. He is survived by his wife Kaaren, their two sons Gregory and Brian, his parents Paula and David, his brothers Tom and Bruce, and the multitudes of people whose lives he impacted in his unique and positive way.

Steven happily spent his life both caring for others and in the pursuit of knowledge. He graduated MIT with a degree in History, received his Medical Degree from L.S.U. and more recently, after retiring from medicine, he earned a Masters in History at U.W. and was nearing completion of his Doctoral thesis pertaining to the history of medicine in the military. In the years between, Steven was a devoted husband and father, a career Navy officer, a skilled surgeon, an amateur boatsman, a reluctant handyman, a farmer’s market connoisseur, an avid cyclist and a lover of all things teddy bear, his spirit animal. Quick to a pun or joke, his sense of humor gratefully (and begrudgingly) survives him in his sons and was renowned for eliciting both laughs and groans, both of which were compliments in his eyes.

He took great pride in his Navy service, retiring with honors as a Captain after 37 years of both active and reserve duty and having helped countless soldiers who had been injured in battle. A celebrated hand surgeon, Steven’s meticulous nature served him well as did his kindness. He would often give young patients teddy bears with matching casts or stitches.

After 30 years as a healer and a teacher he eased into his retirement by becoming a student once again. There he learned fluent German, a language he didn’t begin to know until his 60’s, so that he could continue to read and research voraciously on the subject of history, a lifelong passion of his. His greatest passion, however, was and will always be his wife and family for whom he would and did do anything and everything. In a, chaotic, entropic world Steven Oreck was a constant as powerful as the north star and he will be sorely missed.

Via New York Times

Michigan

Ivan Kushen, Phi (University of Michigan) 1957

Ivan Lewis Kushen, of Highland Park, Illinois and Longboat Key, Florida, born August 10, 1935, passed away August 17, 2023.

Son of the late Genevieve and Arthur Kushen. Beloved husband of Ellen Jones Kushen for 21 years until her death in 1979. Cherished husband of Marilyn Kushen for the past 39 years. The best father of Anne (Mitch) Macknin, Karen (Ed) Weil, Ali (Irv) Kagan, and Geoff Ruttenberg. The loved forever grandfather of Ellen (Max) McCarty, Lucy Behn, Charlie Weil, Rachel Weil, Sammy Kagan, Joey Kagan, and Benjamin Kagan. Great-grandfather of Asher McCarty. Dear brother of Richard (Arlene) Kushen and the late Barbara Kushen Dee, and brother-in-law of Richard (the late Jayne) Jones. Loving cousin and uncle to many. Lifelong devoted friend of countless people across the country.

Ivan was a proud University of Michigan graduate and ZBT fraternity brother. He joined the family furniture company, Kushen Brothers Furniture, out of college and later became a leading sales representative of Schnadig International Furniture. Long-suffering White Sox and Bears fan, offset by the perennial powerhouse Wolverines football squad. Fast walker, fisherman, fun-loving friend, and grillmaster, Ivan had a sharp wit, an infectious laugh, a boundless loyalty to his family and friends, and an unwavering patriotism. His strength, wisdom, humor, and smile will be remembered forever.

Via Sarasota Herald-Tribune

Melvin Y. Globus, Beta Epsilon (Michigan State University) 1948

Melvin Yale Globus, of Boynton Beach, Florida, formerly of Providence, Rhode Island, passed away peacefully on October 29, 2023. He was 95 years old and recently celebrated this wonderful milestone with his entire family. Melvin spent 73 years doting on his wife Hope, whom he met at a dance at the Beachwood Hotel at Narragansett Pier 75 years ago. It was a fitting start to their love story, as Melvin’s high school yearbook voted him “best dancer.”

Melvin was born in Attleboro, Massachusetts and spent his youngest years on his family’s farm. He mastered the art of hard work, appreciating the fruits of his labor but never forgetting from where he came. Melvin’s high school career included captaining three varsity sports teams, where he not only excelled on the field, but also earned the respect of all those who knew him. Melvin began his college education at Michigan State where he was a member of the ZBT Fraternity. He then went on to graduate from Bryant College where he earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Business Administration. Shortly thereafter, he was drafted by the U.S. Army to serve his country in the Korean War, which he did valiantly, retiring as a Second Lieutenant. His commitment to service continued when he later ran his own business, Attleboro Tire and Appliance. Upon moving to Florida, Melvin became an active member of the Tivoli Lakes Community, starring in multiple performances with the Tivoli Lakes Players.

For all his accomplishments, nothing brought Melvin as much joy as the moments he shared with his family. Melvin is survived by his beloved wife Hope, along with his two daughters, Sherri Orloff of Swampscott, MA and Patti Lackey and her husband Bud of Barrington, RI. He was the cherished grandfather of Marc (Anne) Orloff, Jaime (Adam) Feeney, Brad (Ali) Lackey, and Evan (Meghan) Lackey. He was the proud great grandfather of Daniel, Jonathan, Mason, Samara, Eliza, Avery, Thomas, and Siobhan. Melvin also leaves behind his nieces, nephews, cousins, and the extended Lackey family.

Via Legacy.com

Minnesota

Ronald M. Mankoff, Esq., Beta Iota (University of Minnesota) 1954

Ronald Morton Mankoff, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend, died on June 27, 2023.

Born on the Cheyenne River Reservation near Gettysburg, South Dakota on October 13, 1931, Ron was delivered by a Sioux midwife. The local doctor was away at the start of pheasant season. Parents Sarah Frank Mankoff and Harry Mankoff closed the family store as a result of the Depression and resettled in Minneapolis where “Ronny” and sister Marilyn were raised.

Ron entered the University of Minnesota where he joined the ROTC and was President of his Zeta Beta Tau Fraternity Chapter. His fraternity encouraged brothers to pursue an extracurricular activity, and Ron chose debate. In 1950, his University of Minnesota Debate Team won the Big 10 Debate Tournament and Ron was named Outstanding Debater. In 1954 he graduated from the University of Minnesota Law School, after serving on the Law Review. Ron entered the United States Navy as an ensign and served on ships in the Atlantic. During a shore leave in the Virgin Islands, he met the love of his life, Joy Shechtman, who was on vacation with her parents.

After the Navy, and in pursuit of Joy, who was then living in New York, Ron (who had no previous interest in tax) enrolled in the tax program at New York University Law School. In 1959 he and Joy married and settled in Dallas, TX, where Jerome Frank, one of Ron’s favorite uncles, lived. Ron’s law firm motto was, “The practice of law in a congenial environment.” He worked hard for his clients but managed to be home by 5:45 for dinner with his family. Ron practiced tax law for 20 years with Wentworth T. Durant and then with successor firms that carried the Mankoff name. Ron tried and argued more than 50 tax cases and appeals, among them the often-cited Commissioner vs. Tufts decision in the US Supreme Court. He taught partnership tax at SMU Law School and was a sought-after lecturer and author on tax subjects.

Over the years, Ron invested in various business opportunities. In 1994 he invested in a sub-prime lending company run by Dan Phillips. Ron later became Chairman of the company, which went public as First Plus Financial. Ron’s participation in Dallas community activities began in 1962 when, as President of the North Dallas Homeowner’s Association, he successfully opposed toll-road overpasses through Preston Hollow. In 2001, he was President of the NorthPark Area HOA which successfully resisted a high-rise office park near Caruth Haven.

Ron served as chair or president of several other Dallas community organizations including Temple Emanu-El, American Jewish Committee, American Cancer Society and the Dallas Jewish Community Foundation. He served on the national boards of the Union of American Hebrew Congregations and the Center for Interreligious Understanding.

Ron and Joy delighted in giving back to their community. Ron supported many organizations including The Dallas Opera, Dallas Symphony, Jewish Community Relations Council, Dallas Institute of Humanities & Culture, Dallas Municipal Library, AT&T Performing Arts Center, Dallas Theater Center, Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation, Zeta Beta Tau Foundation, Dallas Assembly, Planned Parenthood, Dallas Women’s Foundation, and Greene Family Camp. Ron and Joy were particularly proud of bringing PJ Library to North Texas.

Ron was a lifelong Democrat who never stopped trying to convince his Republican friends to come over to his side (to date there are no known successes from these efforts). Ron’s preferred drink was a Perfect Rob Roy, straight up with a twist. Ron read most, if not all, spy novels published in the English language. When he retired, Ron vigorously renewed his interests in woodworking, bridge, golf, backgammon and painting. During their 64 years of marriage, Ron and Joy traveled extensively, enjoyed summers in La Jolla, were avid patrons of the opera and symphony, and collected American impressionist paintings.

He reveled in the accomplishments of those who survive him: his wife, Joy, their sons, Jeff and Doug, daughters-in-law, Staci Burstyn Mankoff and Marcia Weiner Mankoff, and their five grandchildren, Bradley, Michelle, Sarah, Max, and Eli. In lieu of flowers, Ron requested that a contribution be made to an organization that might be surprised to receive it.

Via Dallas Morning News

Missouri

Richard A. Optican, Omega (University of Missouri) 1954

Richard Alan Optican, lovingly known as “Dick” to family and friends, peacefully passed away at his residence of the past decade, Village Shalom, in Leawood, Kansas, on Thursday, November 9, 2023. He was born on December 4, 1932, in St Joseph, Missouri, to Joseph and Lillian Rosenthal Optican.

Richard was an only child but shared an extraordinary bond with his first cousins, including Gary, Robert, Jamie Rosenthal, Don Kaufman, Elaine Kaufman Kranitz, and Harriet Rosenthal Gross. He was particularly close to his special aunt and uncle, Molly and Barney Burnett, who treated him as their own son. For most of his adult life, he also enjoyed a special “older brother” in Herb Gross, Richard’s friend and neighbor.

A proud graduate of St Joseph Central High in 1950, Richard was an exceptional athlete, serving as the starting shortstop for the Central High school baseball team during his senior year. He continued his academic journey at the University of Missouri, graduating with a Bachelor of Science in Business in 1954. At the university, he held the esteemed position of President in his college fraternity, Zeta Beta Tau.

After marrying his childhood sweetheart, Sarilee Herman, Richard embarked on a new chapter of life, moving to Texas in 1954, where he served as a lieutenant in the United States Air Force at Kelly AFB in San Antonio. Following his military service, he joined the family business, Joe Optican Jewelry Company, in 1957. Starting as Secretary, he became President. His downtown store at 7th and Felix became a landmark in the city until his retirement in 1991. Richard also established a second store as a cornerstone tenant in the newly constructed East Hills Mall in St Joseph in 1965.

Richard was a prominent figure in the community, dedicating his time and efforts to various organizations. He served as the former President of Temple Adath Joseph and Temple Adath Joseph Brotherhood. Additionally, he held board positions at St Joseph Hospital (later Heartland Hospital), the Salvation Army, Kiwanis Club, United Jewish Appeal, Albrecht-Kemper Museum of Art Museum, the St. Joseph Symphony, the St. Joseph School District Foundation, and North American Savings Association.

His passion for sports stemmed from his early days as a bat boy for the Western Association St Joseph Cardinals. He remained a devoted fan of the St Louis Cardinals, the Kansas City Royals, and Duke basketball. One of his other passions was Sunday golf, relishing the time spent with whatever foursome he could muster. He took pride in his 24 handicap, enjoying the sport and camaraderie it offered. He also enjoyed tennis, a sport he learned to play from his wife, Sarilee.

Alongside his passion for sports, he cherished annual family trips, especially family visits to the Elms in Excelsior Springs, Lake of the Ozarks, Colorado Springs, and their tradition of attending the summer Cardinals-Cubs weekend series. He and Sarilee also loved exploring Mexico with their good friends, Mary and John Thompson.

Richard was preceded in death by his wife of 47 years, Sarilee, his parents, Joseph and Lillian Optican, and Sarilee’s parents, Marye and Louis Herman.

Richard is survived by his cherished family: daughters Julie Optican Mathes (Steve) of St Louis, Joan Optican Herman (partner Tommy Sight) of Prairie Village, KS, son Rob Optican (Luann) of Durham, NC; grandchildren Andy Mathes of Atlanta, Joe Mathes (Kaitlin) of St Louis, Kelsey Herman of Portland, OR, Brian Herman (Jessica) of Leawood, KS, Kaley Herman of Denver, Grant Optican of Denver, Grace Optican of Prairie Village, KS; great-grandchildren Catherine and Julia Mathes of St Louis, Mason and Charlie Herman of Leawood, KS; brother and sister-in-law Ed and Marsha Herman of Overland Park, KS; niece Cindy Sugar of Houston, TX; nephews, Gregg Herman of Westwood Hills, KS, and Jeff Herman of Overland Park, KS.

The family is deeply indebted to the exceptional caregivers who were a source of steadfast support and comfort during Richard’s final years: Yirgalem Yemer, Solomon Abiel, Bereket “Beki” Nune, and Firealem “Faith” Demissie.

Richard’s enduring legacy of love, unwavering dedication, and active community engagement will forever resonate in the hearts of those fortunate enough to have been touched by his presence. He will be profoundly missed, and his memory will be fondly cherished by all who were privileged to have called him a friend.

Via St. Louis Jewish Light

Andrew S. Pultman, Omega (University of Missouri) 1985

Beloved father of Caleb and Chase Pultman; former husband of Mimi Pultman; dear son of the late Raymond and the late Jacqueline Pultman; dear brother and brother-in-law of Paula Kessler and Brian Pultman (Mindy); dear nephew cousin and friend.

Samuel Broh, Omega (University of Missouri) 1967

Passed away on Tuesday, April 18, 2023 after a long illness. Sam was born in St. Louis on October 14, 1945 to Janet and Harry Broh. He graduated from Clayton High School in 1963 and the University of Missouri in 1967. While at Mizzou, Sam was a proud member of the Zeta Beta Tau Fraternity. After serving in the Army based on Okinawa, he entered Emory University. After graduation, Sam moved to Huntington, West Virginia to join his father in the Coca-Cola bottling and distribution business. He eventually returned to St. Louis where he was engaged in the bottled water business. Sam served as the Secretary-Treasurer and Executive Director of the Central States Bottled Water Association from 2009 until his death.

While in Huntington, there was no organized youth or high school soccer programs in the state of West Virginia. He began coaching and refereeing youth soccer. In 1978, Sam led a group of five youth coaches to start the first Varsity High School soccer league in the state. For several years, Sam continued coaching the Vinson High School soccer team while serving as the administrator for other coaches and referees in the Huntington League. Sam was instrumental in developing the Marshall University Men’s Soccer Program in 1979. He was in attendance when the team won the National Championship in 2020 and was so proud.

Sam was always involved in sports, both as a participant and a spectator. He participated on tennis teams in both high school and college, and continued playing as an adult. His love for tennis eventually turned into a love of golf and Sam played regularly at Meadowbrook Country Club. In 2018, Sam was inducted into both the West Virginia Soccer Association Hall of Fame and the St. Louis Jewish Sports Hall of Fame

Sam is the beloved husband of Judith Scissors and the dear step-father of Michael Scissors (Lori) and Melinda Conley (Reed). He is survived by brothers Stanley Sclove (Caryl), Robert Scharff, Jr. (Martha), David Sclove (Carol), Andrew Broh (Nancy), Richard Scharff and sisters Patricia Bort (Steve), Lisabeth Margulus (Michael), and Virginia Scharff (Chris Wilson). Sam is a beloved step-grandfather, uncle, great-uncle, cousin, and friend to so many.

Via St. Louis Jewish Light

New York

Richard Schepard, Alpha (City College of New York) 1963

Richard Schepard passed away May 13, 2023 in Paris, France. Devoted husband of Michele, brother of Andrew and Debra, father of Mathieu and Erica; Gregory and Marion; Christopher and Camille; five grandchildren, beloved friend and gifted international attorney. Founding Partner, Bredin Prat, Paris. Assistant General Counsel U.S. Department of Commerce 1977-1979. Graduate of CCNY, NYU Law (first in class), Fulbright Scholar (Sorbonne). With love, Herb, Ruth, Nick, Trina, Roberta, Ollie, Marti. Andrew, Debra.

Richard S. Davison, Omicron (Syracuse University) 1949

Richard Samuel “Dick” Davison, a developer, Pimlico Race Course official and philanthropist, died of complications from pneumonia Aug. 16 at his Pikesville home. He would have turned 97 on Aug. 20.

Marc Terrill, president of the Associated: Jewish Federation of Baltimore, said: “Dick Davison was a gentleman’s gentleman. He was as solid a person as they come. He was kind, thoughtful, generous and very savvy. His easygoing demeanor was magnetic.

“In Jewish thought, we are taught a high honor is the crown of a good name. Dick Davison earned that name,” Mr. Terrill said.

Born and raised in Syracuse, New York, Mr. Davison was the son of Meyer Davison, owner of Davison’s Used Automobiles, and Etta Fleischer Davison, a homemaker who immigrated from Vienna, Austria.

Mr. Davison attended Nottingham High School in Syracuse, and during World War II, he served in the Army. He trained at the University of Pennsylvania as a Japanese language translator and was stationed in Japan.

After leaving the military, he completed his undergraduate studies at Syracuse University. As a student, he maintained an active social life as a member of the fraternity Zeta Beta Tau.

He was introduced by mutual friends to his future wife, Rosalee Cohen, a Baltimore native.

Friends said their initial introduction did not go well. “With time, the couple realized that they had a special connection,” his daughter-in-law, Sarah Davison, said.

They were married on June 1, 1952 at the Hotel Belvedere and honeymooned in Bermuda. They were married for 71 years until her death in June of this year.

The couple built a house in 1968 designed by architect Donald Sickler, where they remained until they died.

Mr. Davison joined his father-in-law, Ben Cohen, as a builder and developer. He worked on garden apartments and office buildings in Norfolk, Virginia; Syracuse; Richmond, Virginia; and Baltimore.

Mr. Davison helped establish and rebrand this portion of the business to what it is known as today — Mt. Royal Management in Baltimore.

He was a past president of the Home Builders Association of Maryland, now known as the Maryland Building Industry Association.

“In my 50 years in the real estate business, I never met a person who didn’t like and respect Dick Davison,” Francis Preroff, a colleague, said. “He was a man of the highest integrity.”

His daughter-in-law said: “He is described by those who knew him as fair, focused and steady. He did not let small things bother him and acted with integrity.”

He served as racing secretary at Pimlico Race Course until 1986, when his father-in-law, Ben Cohen, and Cohen’s brother, Herman, sold the race course for $32 million to a group headed by the late Frank J. De Francis. Among the secretary’s responsibilities were overseeing track records, horses’ paperwork and the racing program.

Mr. Davison regularly attended races at Pimlico, and his wife owned prize-winning thoroughbreds.

An avid golfer, he held memberships at both the Suburban Club of Baltimore and Palm Beach Country Club in Florida. He and his wife spent winter months at their Palm Beach apartment.

They enjoyed going to concerts, art lectures and the ballet.

“He loved all types of music and especially loved to dance. He was an amazing dancer,” his daughter-in-law said. “At age 83, he attended his first Bruce Springsteen concert. At age 95, he was about the best dancer on the floor at his granddaughter Maddie’s bat mitzvah.”

Mr. Davison was a supporter of the Peabody Institute of the Johns Hopkins University.

“Dick was a charming, lovely man and a good friend to Peabody, offering his leadership and good counsel in service on our volunteer board for many years. His and Rosalee’s generosity allowed for the building of the Cohen-Davison Family Theatre, a performance space on our campus that has become a favorite for recitals and master classes by faculty and students alike,” the Peabody’s dean, Fred Bronstein, said in a statement.

“Through that and the two endowed scholarships for which they provided support, the Davisons’ legacy will have a lasting impact on Peabody, and we are truly grateful for it,” the statement says.

Mr. Davison was active in community affairs and Jewish charities. He served as president of the Baltimore chapter of Technion, the Israel Institute of Technology.

He served in various roles at the Associated: Jewish Community Federation of Baltimore and as chair from 1988 to 1991.

He was a past president of the old Temple Oheb Shalom.

A reader of history and biographies, he loved socializing and traveling with his wife. For many years, both he and Rosalee were also part of an informal gourmet club.

Survivors include two sons, Mark Davison of Lutherville and John Davison of Baltimore; a daughter, Joanna Golden of Aspen, Colorado; and eight grandchildren.

Via New York Times

Dr. Steven Zax, Kappa (Cornell University) 1960

Dr. Steven Zax, a native son of Houston, Texas, who went on to open a successful and world renowned plastic and reconstructive surgery practice in Beverly Hills, California, died last Sunday the 8th of January in Los Angeles. He was 78 years old.

Zax was born in 1938, first and only son to Emile and Bayla Zax, themselves the children of Lithuanian emigres who came to the United States via the Port of Galveston at the turn of the century. Zax spent his childhood in Houston where he attended public schools and where earned a reputation as a bit of a hard-charging rapscallion, showed athletic talent as an amateur baseball player, and developed a passionate interest in literature and the arts.

The future surgeon left Texas to attend Cornell University in Ithaca, New York, where he majored in English Literature as an undergraduate. Zax ultimately chose to pursue a career in medicine however, following in the footstep of his father Emile who was also a prominent General Practitioner, and he returned to Houston after college to attend medical school at Baylor University. Zax then went on to perform his internship at Charity Hospital at Tulane University in New Orleans, and his residency at the University of San Francisco, California.

During the Vietnam war Zax was enlisted in the Air Force Reserves where he served at March Air Force Base. He was honorably discharged with the rank of Major. After his service in the military Zax gravitated to more bohemian pursuits, best illustrated by his foray into the music industry where he produced albums for the psychedelic rock band ‘Fever Tree’. He also volunteered his time at the City of Hope, a not-for-profit cancer treatment center located in Southern California.

In 1968 Zax met and married Corinna Tsopei, a former Ms. Universe from Greece, and together they had 3 children. Zax and Tsopei eventually divorced after a ten year marriage, and Zax’s subsequent second marriage to Australian model Jenny Rivas was short-lived. Although he never married again Zax found a lasting love and partnership with Michelle Phillips of Mamas and Papas fame, and their 16 year relationship lasted until Zax’s death.

Zax was among the elite ranks of plastic and reconstructive surgeons who became behind-the-scenes celebrities in their own right, practicing cutting edge aesthetic surgical techniques just as the discipline was beginning to emerge in the 1960s. During the heyday of a practice that spanned over four decades Zax’s reputation grew to International prominence, and his patients comprised a virtual Who’s Who’ of actors, models, musical artists, and even politicians’. Zax remained guarded about the confidentiality of his patients however, valuing not only privacy but also discretion in terms of the outcome of his work. He championed a light-handed and natural approach to surgery, one that achieved the patients’ aims but that did not betray the work of the surgeon. If the patient looked like they had had work done, he believed, then the surgery was not a success.

In addition to his passion for his medical practice, Zax was also an avid collector of classic automobiles, first edition books and primitive art. He coached his sons baseball and soccer teams and enjoyed river and stream fishing, an abiding enthusiasm from his boyhood days in Texas. He is survived by his longtime partner Michelle Phillips, and his three children from his first marriage, Andrew, Steven and Paris Zax, and three grandchildren Eli, Petra and Luca Zax.

Via Houston Chronicle

John M. Klaus, Kappa Phi (Alfred University) 1972

Klaus, John Matthew “Klondike”, 73, passed away October 6, 2023. John was born on December 4, 1949 in St. Albans Naval Hospital, Queens, Long Island NY. His father was George, a retired Captain of the U.S. Navy, and his mother was Katie, nee Tyyne Rinta. Along with his brother George Junior and Aunt Gertrude Rinta, they made up the Klaus family of 140 Mill Dam Road in Centerport, New York.

John was a star athlete at Harborfields High School in Greenlawn New York, who won 12 varsity letters in football, baseball and basketball for the Tornadoes. His youthful summers were spent digging clams, riding boats, and going to beaches in Long Island. He attended Alfred University from 1968 to 1972 and graduated with a bachelor’s degree in business administration.

At Alfred, John developed his lifelong love of music, and became a local disk jockey of regional renown, Klondike Klaus and his Golden Oldies. He was a founding member of the Zeta Beta Tau fraternity at Alfred, and also helped establish Hot Dog Day, still an annual University holiday. Like his father, John spent the majority of his working years with Grumman Aircraft on Long Island (later Northrop Grumman). He was a career contract administrator for Grumman who played an important role in the country’s defense, providing the Navy with various aircraft and related components, including the F-14.

John worked 39 years for Grumman. In 1977, John married the love of his life, Susan Podlewski, who quickly became the Brains of the Family. They spent the last 35 years at their home in West Babylon. John loved Sue, the sun, sand, and beaches, Aruba, the Yankees, Islanders and Jets, dogs Hattie and Summer, his pool, and playing cards and jokes on their friends. Above all, he loved making people happy, and providing a lifetime of good times for all he knew. John will be sorely missed by his wife Sue, his brother George and George’s wife Karen, brother-in-law Billy Podlewski, nieces and nephews Sarah, Emily, Gretchen, David and George, and the whole extended Klaus and Podlewski Families. Go in peace Klondike, you’ve earned your rest, but hearts will ache and smiles will rise when you are remembered by your family and many friends in life.

James I. Ladge, Omicron (Syracuse University) 1990

James I. Ladge, age 55 of Brookline, MA, passed away on Thursday, Sept 29th, surrounded by his loving family, after a two-year battle with Glioblastoma, which he fought with bravery, positivity and an amazing sense of humor. Beloved husband of Johanna Kaplan. Devoted father of Charlie, Jackson and Corey Ladge. Stepfather of Livvy and Jack Bryan and dog father of Kali. Loving son of Marilyn and the late John Ladge. Brother of Meredith Ladge. Nephew of Bunny Ladge and Stephen and Ronda Newman. Cousin of David, Michael and Rich Newman. Son-in-law of Mark and Erika Kaplan, brother-in-law of Jess and Danielle Kaplan and uncle of Nathaniel, Jacob, Alexander and Will.

Jim is also survived by his surrogate family at Appleton Partners, led by Doug Chamberlain, where Jim spent his 30-year career in Finance after graduating from Syracuse University, and by countless friends who have been an incredible support to Jim and his family before and during his illness. Jim will be remembered for his keen sense of humor, biting wit, heart-melting smile and incredible generosity and selflessness. Jim was a quiet leader who preferred to lift up others rather than himself. He spent his adult life most comfortable in the role of caretaker and mentor both in work and life. He was loved by all who knew him.

Via Boston Globe

Bruce D. Bowman, Alpha of Phi Epsilon Pi (University of Rochester) 1969

Bowman, Bruce Of Center City Philadelphia and husband of Deanna Cassin Bowman died peacefully at home on April 2, 2023 after a brief battle with lung cancer. He was 76.

Born in Flushing, Queens, NY he was the son of the late David and Ruth Bowman. His father was an electrical engineer and his mother a homemaker. He attended public schools in Arlington, VA and Strafford, PA graduating from Conestoga High School in 1964. Bowman went on to the University of Rochester where he majored in English and was a member of the Phi Epsilon Pi fraternity and the Yellow Key honor society as well as a resident advisor. He joined the army in 1968 after graduating from college and was stationed in hospitals in Japan that provided care for injured soldiers from Viet Nam.

Upon his return to the States he found a post as a reporter for the Danvers Herald a weekly newspaper north of Boston. There he won several awards for writing and photography. He moved on to daily newspapers at Essex County Newspapers as an editor. In 1983 he moved to New York and began a new career in public relations beginning at Hill and Knowlton where he was part of a team that won a Silver Anvil the industry’s highest award. An avid runner Bowman finished 15 marathons and more than 100 races of 10 miles or more. Upon retiring he and Deanna left a long-time residency in Brooklyn and moved to Philadelphia in 2016. In addition to his wife he is survived by a daughter, Amanda Bowman-Carr of San Francisco, 3 step children, William Cassin of New York City, Daniel Cassin of Littleton, CO, and Michelle Cassin of Haddonfield, NJ as well as a granddaughter Connolly Cassin also of Haddonfield and a sister Christina Tsuchida of Tokyo, Japan.

Via The Philadelphia Inquirer

North Carolina

Lee S. Lipsitz, Alpha Upsilon (Duke University) 1947

MERALD ISLE, NC – Lee Stanley Lipsitz, 96, of Emerald Isle (formerly of Ahoskie), passed away peacefully at his home on Wednesday, August 23, 2023.

He was born on November 26, 1926, in Baltimore, MD, the son of Alexander Warren Lipsitz and Mary Levine Lipsitz. Lee grew up in Ahoskie, NC, where the Lipsitz family owned and operated the Ahoskie Department Store. He graduated from Duke University in 1948 and was a member of Zeta Beta Tau fraternity and became a lifelong Iron Duke.  Lee served as a staff sergeant in the U.S. Army at Fort Bragg from 1945 to 1946. Lee worked in the Ahoskie Department Store until the family sold the business in 1963, after which he hit the road selling clothing up and down the East Coast for a range of diverse companies including Austin-Hill and Bill Blass for PBM (Pincus Brothers Maxwell). He traveled frequently to New York City for PBM.  Lee enjoyed a successful and entrepreneurial career, opening a collection of Golden Skillet fried-chicken franchises beginning in 1973. He also owned a pig parlor and a share in a gold mine.

He is survived by his wife of 69 years, Lelia Darden Sumner Lipsitz “Lil”, whom he married in 1953. He is also survived by their three daughters: Alexis Flippin, Julie Shields, and Amy Lipsitz; sons-in-law Royce Flippin III and David Shields; grandchildren: Michael Shields (Anna) and Stephen Shields (Coleman Young); Alex Burchins (Emily), Andrew Burchins (Jessie), and Molly Rebenski (James); and Maisie Flippin; great-grandchildren Charlie and Lottie Shields and Lily Burchins; brothers Steven (Barbara) and the late Hilary (Ethel); sister Betty (Lee Rout), and many nephews and nieces.

Lee was much loved by his family and many friends. His smiling presence, ebullient good cheer, enthusiastic support, curiosity, and boundless kindness will be deeply missed. His generosity in sharing his business acumen helped boost many a young entrepreneur’s career. He truly embodied the golden rule, with a lifelong mantra of “kill ‘em with kindness.” Lee lived a wonderful life and savored every single minute of it, especially if fried chicken, Julie’s pimento cheese, and vodka were involved. Go Duke!

Via News-Herald

Ohio

Alan L. Klein, Alpha Rho of Phi Epsilon Pi (Ohio University) 1964

Alan Leslie Klein , 83, of Vienna passed away June 7, 2023 at the Camden Clark Medical Center.  Alan was born on January 2, 1940 in Zanesville, OH and was the son of the late Leo L. and Sara Goldman Klein.

Alan graduated from Ohio University, where he was a member of the ZBT Fraternity and later served on Business Advisory Board at the University.  He served in the US Army Reserve, as President of the Rotary Club of Parkersburg and on the United Bank Board.  He was President of Mister Bee Potato Chip Company and was a past president of the War International Snack Food Trade Association.

He is survived by his wife of 57 years, Sally E. Klein; two sons, Andrew and Doug Klein both of Vienna; and one granddaughter, Mackenzi Klein of Charlotte, NC.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by one brother, Fred Klein.

Via WTAP

Derian A. Dominguez, Lambda (Case Western Reserve University) 2022

If you were in a room with Derian Dominguez, you’d have known it before even seeing him. The business management student, who was entering the final year of his undergraduate degree program, brought a certain liveliness to every space he entered, his friends recalled.

“Whether it be a night out on the town, camping in the woods or hanging out in a living room, Derian’s energy always was present,” said Takoda Denhof (CWR ’22). “His laugh was contagious, and he always knew how to make your day a little bit better.”

Now, members of the Case Western Reserve University community are mourning the loss of such an energetic, bright and caring personality, after the 23-year-old was reportedly murdered Aug. 3 while in New Orleans working a summer construction job.

Born and raised in New York—the Bronx until junior high then upstate for high school—Dominguez came to Case Western Reserve in 2018 with aspirations of becoming a successful businessman. Here, he was active in the Zeta Beta Tau fraternity and worked in Allen Memorial Medical Library—and was always armed with a joke that helped him make new friends.

Dominguez was one of the first people Ryan Tien (CWR ’23) met at Case Western Reserve. Their friendship grew as they became fraternity brothers and eventually housemates.

“[Derian] always looked out for those he loved and never backed down from helping his friends—a trait I always admired,” said Tien.

Dominguez never tried to sugarcoat things, Tien remembered, and would tell his friends exactly what they needed to hear, especially when they were in the wrong. Though he was known for his candor, Tien said his friend was also always quick with a joke—and even quicker with comebacks.

Chris Dolwick, ZBT advisor and circulation manager and Dominguez’s supervisor at Allen Memorial Medical Library, said Dominguez’s smile, laugh and sense of humor were infectious—even, “or maybe especially, at inopportune moments.

“So were his self-confidence and charm; [he was] a true extrovert,” said Dolwick. “Witnessing the grief and love of so many students at his passing is physically painful, yet a tribute to the friend and brother he was to so many. He would’ve been the first to bring people together after a tragedy like this.”

Dominguez’s father noted that his son’s unifying nature was a strength.

“He got along with everyone, no matter how different they were,” Rafael Dominguez wrote in a eulogy he shared with The Daily.

Dominguez was a passionate social justice advocate, an adventurer by nature, a music and sports enthusiast, and a “talented air fryer chef,” the eulogy notes. He also was deeply proud of his Dominican roots. Raphael Aleman (CWR ’22), a fellow student of Latino heritage, always knew his friend was nearby because he’d heard him loudly bellow “hermano,” which means “brother” in Spanish.

“Naturally, I would always bellow it back,” Aleman said. “Derian was the ultimate hype man. He was the type of person who automatically just made you feel good by giving you a compliment or a big smile.”

That genuineness and humor extended to his studies. Kaleigh May, a sixth-year PhD candidate at Weatherhead School of Management, described Dominguez as a high-spirited, enthusiastic student who was eager to learn and engage with the material in the organizational behavior class she taught.

“We actually ran into each other at the Jolly Scholar after I had just sung karaoke with friends—I was very embarrassed,” May recalled. “We chatted and joked, and he shared how much he enjoyed my class. He made an embarrassing moment for me less awkward, something he often did in class.”

May said Dominguez could easily talk to any of his classmates, and he regularly shared stories about his siblings—two older sisters, a younger brother and younger sister—and how much he cared about them.

Megan Buchter, adjunct professor at the Weatherhead School, said Dominguez’s interest in entrepreneurship was evident in her entrepreneurship strategy class this spring.

“[Derian] always asked great questions of the entrepreneurs that visited our class,” she recalled. “He was always smiling and was never afraid to come up and talk to me after class or reach out if he had questions. His happy, eager presence will be missed.”

Via CWRU The Daily

Pennsylvania

Andy Golden, Alpha Nu (Muhlenberg College) 1982

Andy Golden ’82, a renowned NIH research scientist who worked with microscopic worms called C. elegans, died July 1. His work made major contributions toward scientific understanding of how cells divide, with implications for understanding the mechanisms of cancer. In recent years, he focused his research on genetic mutations associated with rare human diseases. Throughout his career, he mentored emerging scientists, including several from Muhlenberg, and nurtured a deep connection with his alma mater.

At Muhlenberg, Golden studied biology and was vice president of Zeta Beta Tau. He went on to obtain a Ph.D. from SUNY Stony Brook and to conduct postdoctoral studies at the California Institute of Technology, Pasadena. That’s where he began to focus on C. elegans. It’s also where he published his first major paper, in Nature, about a gene that is a major player in cancers in humans and other animals.

In his earlier work at the NIH, he did a range of studies that helped determine the specific proteins that are involved in cell division events. In the last decade or so, he reworked his lab to focus on using C. elegans as a model to study the mechanics of rare human inherited diseases.

Per the National Organization for Rare Disorders, “a rare disorder is a disease or condition that affects fewer than 200,000 Americans. Cumulatively, there are more than 7,000 rare diseases affecting more than 30 million Americans.” Pharmaceutical companies generally aren’t interested in developing therapeutics for these conditions because of their rarity. Golden’s idea was to use C. elegans to explore the mechanisms of genes that aren’t well understood in human beings but might have clinical implications for patients with rare disorders. His most recent research interest was Timothy Syndrome, a rare condition that can predispose children to potentially fatal arrhythmias. Working with families of affected children, he helped launch the Timothy Syndrome Foundation and the Timothy Syndrome Alliance.

Golden was devoted to his undergraduate alma mater. He would search for the word “Muhlenberg” when sifting through applications for positions in his lab, confident in the training that students from the College receive. He remained connected with his fraternity brothers as well as his fraternity, sometimes offering positions in his lab to current brothers. He worked with the Career Center to connect with and mentor students and helped facilitate a 2017 student visit to the NIH.

On a personal level, Golden was known for being affable, personable and charismatic. He was a talented scientific mentor who helped launch many careers. At the celebration of his life, held July 11 in Woodstock, Maryland, the venue exceeded its capacity and some mourners needed to gather outside. Fraternity brothers traveled from multiple locations to share their remembrances of him.

Survivors include his wife, Alex; his daughter, Zoe; and his brother, Hal. A more complete obituary can be found here.

Via Muhlenberg.edu

Adam D. Ginther, Beta Tau (Edinboro University) 1996

Adam D. Ginther, 51, of 132 Laurel Lane, Kersey, passed away unexpectedly Saturday, October 21, 2023, at Sena Kean Nursing and Rehabilitation Center in Smethport.

He was born March 22, 1972, in Olean, NY, son of the late David F. and Marie Gradl Ginther. He was a graduate of St. Marys Area High School, Class of 1990 and earned his degree in criminal justice from Edinboro University.

He is survived by his brother, Aaron Ginther and his wife, Julie of St. Marys as well as his beloved nieces, Amelia and Alicia Ginther.

Adam was a gun enthusiast and enjoyed competitive shooting. He was a member of the Ridgway Rifle Club and a life member with the NRA. He was also a contributing member of the Zeta Beta Tau fraternity at Edinboro University.

John B. Warden, III, Beta Phi (University of Pittsburgh) 1980

It is with great sadness we announce the death of John B. Warden, III. He passed away on April 25, 2023 at the age of 64 in Atlanta, Georgia, surrounded by loved ones.

Born on July 25, 1958, John grew up in Harrisburg in a loving blended family with his parents John and Lee, his stepmother Mim, his stepfather Jack, and his siblings Debbie, Alice Anne, Kimberly, and brother Dave. He played baseball for Susquehanna Township with his lifelong friend Phil Skender. John graduated from the University of Pittsburgh where he studied business and accounting. He was a proud brother of ZBT and made lifelong memories and friends, most notably Alex Paul. John was a successful businessman running Warden Asphalt Company for the past 35 years. He sat on many boards including the Pennsylvania Asphalt Paving Association (PAPA) and the Dauphin County Historical Society. He was also a contributor to many philanthropic causes including Whitaker Center and starting the Fund for the Future.

Most importantly John was a loving father raising two children, Kyle and Ally, with his wife Anne in Harrisburg. In recent years he was fortunate to share his life in Atlanta with his partner, Elaine Diamond and her daughters, Sara and Emily. He shared a passion for the Philadelphia Phillies with his beloved uncle, Andy Musser. He was also known to be passionate about all Pittsburgh sports, the Rolling Stones, U.S. History, a round of golf with friends, and a glass of bourbon.

John is survived by his mother, Lee Fields; step-mother, Mim Warden; siblings Deborah Warden (Neal Epstein, Max, Boer, Kaia, and Daniel), Alice Anne Schwab (Bob Garrett, Anna, Kate, Ed), Dave Warden, Kimberly Werner (Michael and Lee); his children, Kyle Warden and Alexis Warden Edmonson (Sean) as well as Anne Warden, Elaine Diamond (Sara and Emily). He is also survived by his cousins, Luanne Zimmerman and Allan Musser and many nieces, nephews, and dear friends. John was preceded in death by his father, John B. Warden Jr.; his uncle and aunt, Andy and Eun-Joo Musser and his stepfather, Jack Schwab.

The family would like to acknowledge Chris Daniel, Larry Dunbar, and Mario Davis for their incredible care and compassion in the last few weeks of his life.

Tennessee

Richard L. Krelstein, Alpha Nu (University of Tennessee – Knoxville) 1959

On Friday, March 3, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. Beloved husband of Sydney. Loving father of Alexis Fingold, and Richard Lee Krelstein Jr. Dear brother of Ronald Krelstein, and Karen Latner. Devoted grandfather of Phoebe, Peyton, Stella, Ava, and Sophie.

He served as a Director of the Zeta Beta Tau Foundation from 2014-2017 and served on the Fraternity staff as a Field Secretary from 1960-1961.

Via Los Angeles Times

Texas

Bradley L. Koen, Lambda (University of Texas at Austin) 1992

Bradley Lawrence Koen passed away on April 5, 2023. He was born on June 7,1970 to William J Koen, Jr. and Suzanne Saikin Koen in Austin, Texas.

He lived in Austin, Texas until moving to Spicewood, Texas in 2015. Brad was a graduate of Johnston High School in 1988. He was an avid basketball and soccer player. After graduation, he joined the family business, Joe Koen and Son. Brad was President of the Texas Jewelers Association from 2015-2017.

Brad met and married Sally Watkins in 1999 in Austin. He loved living on Lake Travis and entertaining his stepchildren and grandchildren. Among his favorite pastimes were riding jet skis and atvs. He enjoyed playing basketball and attending UT sporting events.

Brad was preceded in death by his grandparents Bill Koen, Sr. and Dorothy Koen, and Jack Saikin and Bella Saikin.

He is survived by his wife Sally Watkins Koen of Spicewood, Texas, his father William J Koen, Jr., and wife Cheryl Koen, his mother Suzanne Saikin Koen, brother William J Koen, III and wife Tammy Koen, sister Lori Goldberg, and husband Mickey Goldberg, stepchildren Erin Watkins and Eric Nordling, nieces Claire Koen, Brittany Goldberg, Greer Goldberg, nephews William J Koen IV, and Brandon Goldberg.

Brad was very proud of his grandchildren Jaxon and Alayna Nordling of Austin, Texas.

Brad will be fondly remembered by all who knew him.

Via Austin American Statesman

West Virginia

Paul Arthur, Gamma Epsilon (Marshall University) 1969

PAUL ERNEST ARTHUR, 76 of Huntington, West Virginia, passed away May 31, 2023, in the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House. He was born in Huntington, West Virginia, on July 21, 1946, the son of Mona Belle Johnson Arthur and the late Hiram Carl Arthur. He is preceded in death by his beloved daughter, Ara Michalle Oldaker.

Paul was a graduate of Huntington East High School Class of 1964 and West Virginia University School of Pharmacy Class of 1969. He was retired pharmacist from the VA Medical Center. In addition, he was a member of Zeta Beta Tau while attending Marshall University. Paul had an unending love for his family and friends that can never be duplicated.

He is survived by the love of his life, Erma McCallister Arthur, his wife of 38 years; his mother whom he cherished, Mona Arthur; his precious daughter, Susan Arthur; his treasured grandchildren, Ryan Ashworth and his wife Bailie, Blake Ashworth, and Jordan Storms; his brother and sister-in-law, George and Cassie Arthur; his niece, Julie (Jon) Evans; his nephew, Gregory (Gretchen) Arthur; his daughter’s widower, Charles Oldaker and his children Austin (Emily) Oldaker, Tristin Oldaker, and Braxton Oldaker; and numerous cousins and friends.

Paul was always willing to lend a helping hand and loved by so many. The family would like to express their appreciation for the staff of Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House for the loving care that he received.

Via The Herald-Dispatch

Michael A. McGhee, Gamma Epsilon (Marshall University) 1975

Michael A. McGhee was born on June 5, 1953, in Welch, WV to Quincy A. and Sarah L. McGhee who preceded him in death.

Michael attended public school in McDowell County and graduated from Welch High School and attended Marshall University where he studied Business Administration/Hospitality.

Michael was an active member of the St. James Baptist Church and was ordained as a Deacon in 2007.Following the legacy of his grandfather and father who were both Deacons in their respective churches. He also served as Sunday School Superintendent, which he truly enjoyed ministering to church members. He was also Treasurer of the Deacon Ministry.

Michael recently retired from Vacation Time of Hilton Head after 23 years of dedicated service. He cherished the time he spent with his co-workers and meeting and interacting with people from all over the country.

Michael loved animals and would take in any stray without hesitation, he cared for both domestic and exotic pets.  Michael was a great cook, he made the best Mac and Cheese and Banana Pudding especially during the Holidays.  However, Michael loved eating out and trying new restaurants. He was a major foodie, always looking for discounts and priding himself on how much he would save. Upon retiring he decided to become a gardener, purchasing, numerous flowers he planted this fall.

He had a kindred spirit which made everyone who met him, like him and enjoy being around him.  He was a great big brother, usually letting me have my way, and was a good listener. I will truly miss my brother.

He leaves to mourn his sister Yivetta J. McGhee-Starke (Winston) of Waldorf, MD. Aunt Catherine Curry of Kissimmee, FL. Nephews Michael W. Starke (Kenya), Phillip J. Starke (Jennifer) of Maryland, five great nephews Michael, Noah, Messai, Nyle and Nolan and one great niece Nalah who preceded him in death. A host of cousins and numerous extended family and friends and his best friend Timothy Metz.

David Moehling, Gamma Epsilon (Marshall University) 1968

David William Moehling, 76 of Huntington, passed away March 25, 2023. He was born September 27, 1946, in Huntington, W.Va., son of the late Frederick William “Fritz” Moehling and Kathryn Ester Kincade Moehling. He was also preceded in death by brother Frederick Ernest Moehling and sister Mary Hedwig Moehling-Powell. He is survived by his wife Beverly Kirk Moehling; son Rodney W. Moehling (Crystal); stepsons Christopher Michael Withrow (Melanie) and Matthew Ryan Withrow (Elizabeth); grandchildren Preston Moehling (Grace) and Palmer Moehling, Tierney Withrow and Kirk Withrow. He attended Marshall University and became a mechanical engineer having worked at Union Carbide, Dow Chemical, Middough Engineering, and CDI Engineering.

Via Herald-Dispatch

Thomas M. Hartley, Gamma Epsilon (Marshall University) 1974

THOMAS MATTHEW HARTLEY, age 70, passed away December 10, 2022 in Petersburg, VA. He was born Oct 22, 1952, in South Charleston, West Virginia, a son of the late Thomas Hartley and Dorothy Juanita Daugherty.

He was a 1970 graduate of Nitro High School. He furthered his education by obtaining his undergraduate degree from Marshall University, where he was a member of ZBT Fraternity, and his master’s degree from West Virginia University.

He retired from the United States Army National Guard in 1998 with the rank of Lieutenant Colonel. During his military career he received numerous citations and meritorious achievement recognition. After his retirement, he taught JROTC at Millard and Shelby Valley High Schools in Pikeville, Kentucky. He enjoyed coaching basketball in midget leagues and junior varsity.

Tom was a United Methodist by faith and had been a member of Cross Lanes UMC.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his wife, Maretta, and his nephew, Mikey Coffey.

Surviving are his daughters, Kate Bickett and Jill Seamans (Shane); four grandchildren, Kaylie and Caden Bickett, Nolan and Nash Seamans; sister Nancy (Mike)Coffey and nephews Matt, Justin and Josh Coffey and a host of cousins.

Via Charleston Gazette-Mail

E. G. Schroeder, Gamma Epsilon (Marshall University) 1970

Eberhard “Bud” G. Schroeder, formerly of Ft. Mill SC, died peacefully on October 10, 2023 at his home in Lancaster PA, surrounded by his loving family. He is survived by Linda, his wife of 53 years, and his two daughters: Andrea Martin and Laura Schroeder. He is also survived by two grandchildren Aidan and Keira Martin, and two sisters, Erna Tunno (Roderick) and Theadel Alexander. He is preceded in death by his brother John L. Schroeder.

Bud Schroeder was born in Torsballig, Germany in 1946 and moved to New York City in 1950. In 1957 they moved to Neptune, New Jersey where Bud attended High School and worked at his father’s business, Neptune Candies. Bud attended Vally Forge Military Academy and later earned his bachelor’s degree from Marshall University in West Virginia where he met his wife Linda. During his career, he worked as Vice President of International for the Martin Brower Company, Papa Johns and IPC (Subway) all in distribution. After retirement, he found joy in golfing, organizing a billiards club and tournament, collecting coins, playing cards and chess and spending time with family and his grandchildren. He will be forever remembered and greatly missed.

Via Charles F. Snyder Funeral Homes

Bernard Goodman, Gamma Epsilon (Marshall University) 1966

Bernard Neal ‘Bernie-Ber’ Goodman, 82, passed from this life on 30 September 2023 in Tucson, Arizona.

Ber was born Accoville, Logan County, West Virginia, the son of John Goodman and Mildred Galford Goodman. He graduated from Man High School, Man, West Virginia and attended Marshall University where he was a member Zeta Beta Tau fraternity. Ber’s diverse work career ranged from working at the Naval Shipyard in Portsmouth, Virginia; the Smart Shop in Huntington, West Virginia; Lazarus Department Store in Columbus and Mansfield, Ohio; Molly’s Cheese House in Ashland, Ohio; Canalos Wholesale in Sandusky, Ohio; Amster Kirtz Wholesale in Canton, Ohio and Co-Sales in Tucson, Arizona. Bernie was a long-time regular at the Medina Ohio Christmas Show, Prairie Peddler and Yankee Peddler in Ohio, selling handmade crafts, most of them made by his beloved mother Mildred. Ber was a rabid Buckeyes fan – Go Scarlet and Grey! He was an active contributor to many social media platforms, often getting temporary bans due to espousing his staunch political beliefs. After his retirement, Ber became a consummate personal journalist and diarist, recording his thoughts, ideas and opinions on subjects ranging from health, social and political issues and life itself. Ber was a lover of animals and nature — as a neighbor so aptly noted ‘He [Ber] was such a good gentle soul, and a great neighbor. Loving all the cats and making sure that the birds had their food and water each day. He will truly be missed.’ Most important, Ber was an extremely gifted artist with many of his works displayed and sold at Jane Hamilton Fine Art in Tucson and 55 Main Gallery in Bisbee, Arizona. Bernie is survived by a sister, Margaret G. Wooton, North Carolina and a niece, Sharla Slappey, also in North Carolina. He was preceded in death by his parents and siblings Janette Doreen Goodman, John Keith Goodman and James Edward Goodman. Words cannot describe how Ber will be missed by his loving relatives and many friends. A private ash interment ceremony is planned for late Spring 2024 in Pocahontas County, West Virginia, on the ancestral site of his mother’s family’s farm, a site beloved for Ber.

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Joseph Scheuner, Alpha Kappa (University of Wisconsin – Madison) 1963

Joseph Mills Scheuner, 75, died on September 18, 2016. Born in Memphis, son of the late Harris and Fannie (Katzerman) Scheuner, he received a BS from the University of Wisconsin and a JD from Memphis State University (now the University of Memphis). He owned and operated numerous businesses, including Gridiron Restaurants, Business Asset Finders and US Tax Works 2.0. He served on boards and leadership committees for various organizations, including Art Today, the Dudley East Neighborhood Association, Plough Towers and Lifeblood. He was also a member of The Armor and Arms Club of New York.

He was predeceased by his daughter Jennifer Scheuner and leaves his wife, Mary Scheuner, sons Jason Scheuner of Ramona, CA, and Harris Scheuner of Memphis, and his brother-in-law Timothy Pusch of Simsbury, CT, as well as niece Jillian Pusch and nephews Zachary (Beth) Pusch and Dustin (Lindsey) Pusch and his sister, Harriet Skupin and niece Sara Gagliano.

Via The Commercial Appeal

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Joel Sable, Alpha Alpha (University of Connecticut) 1967

We lost a true gentleman, the kind you rarely see anymore, caring, considerate and kind to all.

Joel Sable, husband of Kyle Annulli-Sable of Manchester, formerly of West Hartford, died June 10, 2023.

Joel is also survived by his loving and devoted daughters of whom he was so proud. Jennifer Kabakoff, a teacher in West Hartford and her husband, Randy, of West Hartford and Amy Churchill, a doctor in Acton, MA and her husband, Jon. He is also survived by his grandchildren Eli, Lucy and Leo Kabakoff and Charlotte and Reed Churchill. He is also survived by nieces and nephews Adam and Shelby Annulli of Glastonbury and their children, Allison Annulli of Manchester, and Lon and Susan Annulli of Manchester and his Steinberg nieces and nephews.

Joel was blessed with many friends, including a very special awe-inspiring 70 year friendship with Stuey Roth, with whom he ardently rejoiced (or lamented) every UCONN basketball game. They were longtime season ticket holders, attending many national championship games, including the Final Fours. He was also a Red Sox, Patriots and Celtics fan.

He was a 1963 graduate of Conard High School, a 1967 graduate of UCONN and member of Phi Sigma Delta fraternity, and a 1970 graduate of UCONN Law School. He also served six years in the Reserves.

He and partner, Michael Berman, established the Berman and Sable Law Firm in Hartford. He completed his distinguished 50 year law career with Rogin Nassau. A highlight of his career was being admitted to argue cases before the 2nd Court of Appeals.

He and Kyle happily loved life together for 33 years traveling around the world to destinations as varied as Antarctica, African Safari, Europe, the Baltic Nations, the Orient-Express, Egypt, the Caribbean and beloved Nantucket. They also “collected” baseball parks around the country when the Red Sox were playing there. Kyle always described Joel as the “best husband ever” (he was also described this way by her jealous friends).

Joel was the light of our lives. He was easy, fun, gracious, endlessly funny, adventurous, curious, a student of current affairs, and always a consummate professional. He had a deep love of family and friends who are thankful for the memories with Joel as a source of light, love and laughter. He was unimaginably smart and funny. He would immediately make you laugh. We will miss absolutely everything about him. We are all better for having known him.

The family requests those who wish to express sympathy to consider making a contribution to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in Joel’s memory, http://giving.mskcc.org

Via Hartford Courant

Robert P. Malavich, Alpha Mu of Phi Sigma Delta (University of Massachusetts – Amherst) 1969

Robert P. (Bob) Malavich, 78, passed away Aug. 8 with family at his side after a period of declining health. Despite his health issues, Bob had remained active in shaping the direction of the city he loved and where he spent his life.

He was the loving husband of Anne (Donovan) Malavich, with whom he celebrated 48 years of marriage on Aug. 2nd.

Bob was born on May 5, 1945 the son of William Sr., and Sophie (Szuksta) Malavich, who predeceased him. Bob attended Lowell schools and was a graduate of Lowell High School, Wentworth Institute, UMass Amherst and Boston University.

He was a proud Lowellian and gifted city planner. He worked for the City of Lowell Department of Planning and Development for 34 years, and, in time, became director of the DPD. He loved Lowell and worked to make it a model for city planners everywhere.

His career as a city planner enabled him to get in on the ground floor of the creation of the Lowell National Historical Park.

Bob was a member of the Jaycees for many years and was actively involved in the construction of the Jaycee Place apartments on Bowers Street and the renovation of Rogers Hall as apartments. Both complexes serve older Lowell residents of different incomes.

After he retired from the City of Lowell DPD, Bob took a similar position in West Warwick R.I., but drove home every weekend to his beloved city and home. When he left that position, he returned full-time to Lowell and became a member of the Planning Board. He was still a member at the time of his death.

Besides his wife Anne, he is also survived by his daughter Erica Malavich McCumber and her husband Jonathan McCumber of Lowell; his son Daniel Malavich and his wife Lauren of Dallas, GA. He also is survived by his three favorite people, all of whom called him “Papa,” his grandchildren, Juniper McCumber of Lowell and Donovan and Alina Malavich of Dallas, GA. He was the brother of Richard Malavich and his wife Donna, of Nashua, NH, and Thomas Malavich of Lowell.

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Bruce D. Bowman, Alpha of Phi Epsilon Pi (University of Rochester) 1969

Bowman, Bruce Of Center City Philadelphia and husband of Deanna Cassin Bowman died peacefully at home on April 2, 2023 after a brief battle with lung cancer. He was 76.

Born in Flushing, Queens, NY he was the son of the late David and Ruth Bowman. His father was an electrical engineer and his mother a homemaker. He attended public schools in Arlington, VA and Strafford, PA graduating from Conestoga High School in 1964. Bowman went on to the University of Rochester where he majored in English and was a member of the Phi Epsilon Pi fraternity and the Yellow Key honor society as well as a resident advisor. He joined the army in 1968 after graduating from college and was stationed in hospitals in Japan that provided care for injured soldiers from Viet Nam.

Upon his return to the States he found a post as a reporter for the Danvers Herald a weekly newspaper north of Boston. There he won several awards for writing and photography. He moved on to daily newspapers at Essex County Newspapers as an editor. In 1983 he moved to New York and began a new career in public relations beginning at Hill and Knowlton where he was part of a team that won a Silver Anvil the industry’s highest award. An avid runner Bowman finished 15 marathons and more than 100 races of 10 miles or more. Upon retiring he and Deanna left a long-time residency in Brooklyn and moved to Philadelphia in 2016. In addition to his wife he is survived by a daughter, Amanda Bowman-Carr of San Francisco, 3 step children, William Cassin of New York City, Daniel Cassin of Littleton, CO, and Michelle Cassin of Haddonfield, NJ as well as a granddaughter Connolly Cassin also of Haddonfield and a sister Christina Tsuchida of Tokyo, Japan.

Via The Philadelphia Inquirer

Alan L. Klein, Alpha Rho of Phi Epsilon Pi (Ohio University) 1964

Alan Leslie Klein , 83, of Vienna passed away June 7, 2023 at the Camden Clark Medical Center.  Alan was born on January 2, 1940 in Zanesville, OH and was the son of the late Leo L. and Sara Goldman Klein.

Alan graduated from Ohio University, where he was a member of the ZBT Fraternity and later served on Business Advisory Board at the University.  He served in the US Army Reserve, as President of the Rotary Club of Parkersburg and on the United Bank Board.  He was President of Mister Bee Potato Chip Company and was a past president of the War International Snack Food Trade Association.

He is survived by his wife of 57 years, Sally E. Klein; two sons, Andrew and Doug Klein both of Vienna; and one granddaughter, Mackenzi Klein of Charlotte, NC.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by one brother, Fred Klein.

Via WTAP